Self Care Saturday (on Sunday)

As I’ve mentioned before, these readings are (not usually) bearing in on any one thing or event in my life, as the question used is asking for a more general outlook. This is a self care exercise, and are not meant as a predictive reading.

The question is… What do I need to focus for self-care through the week ahead?

SCS

EarthTen of Swords, Seven of Cups, Taurus (The Lover) – The message here is about over-indulging and having been too much in my head lately. Over the next week it will be important to get back in touch with grounding myself and finding that steady center. Considering how stuck I have felt lately, these cards are right on the mark. I feel like I have been a little too lax with myself and need to tighten up the reigns. It will be important to do this one step at a time, but even that slow progress is better than stagnancy.

AirFive of Pentacles, Waxing Crescent (Play), Waxing Gibbous (Manifest) – “Find the Fun” is the message here. I’ve spent too much time in my head (as mentioned previously) and not enough time creating the right kind of energy to spark my interest and get me moving. Changes for the better are coming, but in order to dig myself out of the slump? I need to find the fun.

WaterThree of Cups and Honey Moon (Productivity) – Building on the “find the fun” theme of things and finding my way forward out of this slump, the cards are indicating that enlisting the help of friends and love ones will not just make the work and transition I’m looking to manifest far more enjoyable, but also create a greater level of productivity without it feeling so much like work.

FireQueen of Wands, The Star, Pisces (The Psychic) – This is another call to reach for grounding energy and stay in the present. Looking too far ahead or too far behind can distract and overwhelm. By keeping focused on the present, though, the path forward can become illuminated one step at a time instead of seemingly being a tangle of “to do’s” and “what should I do’s”.

WaningWaxing Crescent (Nourishment) – This card is a reiteration of the message above, especially in the earth position. It is about getting off my ass and taking the first steps instead of coddling myself and my indecision.

WaxingWaxing Gibbous (Focus) – Combined with the message in the Waning position, this card is an indication that I need to train my focus on moving forward. Foster that focus moving through the next week and I will be able to begin digging myself out of the quagmire of inaction I’ve found myself in lately.

Take Away – Focusing upon the present is really important right now, as is tightening up the reigns on my self-indulgent behavior, and reaching out to others to help make moving forward with my plans not just productive but fun as well.

DECKS USED: WHEEL OF FORTUNE TAROT, SPIRIT DE LA LUNE ORACLE, QUEEN OF THE MOON ORACLE

 

 

One thought on “Self Care Saturday (on Sunday)

  1. First order of business is to settle on a course of actions. You know that you want to make changes with the business and restructure so that you are not always so overwhelmed. So how do you do that? What steps can you take to make this happen? How can you shuffle things around so that less steps are necessary to get from point A to point B?

    I’m not entirely sure of your thought patterns here, where you are trying to go with this beyond emptying that ever full plate somewhat, but I would say one of the things you need to do to help you take off some of the burden is to solve the issue with the post office runs and paperwork. We have discussed this before and tried to find a simple solution but so far have found none, but there has to be something easier than hours of paperwork twice a week just to carry your orders across the border to pick up from Z and then bring it all back and take it to the post office. Maybe it’s as simple as working out a solution with the post master that you can drop off and pick up on your way home, Maybe you need to switch which post office you are dealing with and find a post master that WILL work with you in this regard so you’re not wasting hours(and during rush it is several hours twice every week) on unnecessary paperwork and getting stuck in customs. That right there wastes so much of your precious time.

    So maybe that is the first step in moving forward, hm?

    Another step that maybe isn’t needed right now, but one that will be necessary soon, is finding another helper. One who is more productive and most importantly, more reliable than the last. And remember that when you find someone, you have to be the boss. From the get go, you have to demand good work ethics so the next one doesn’t get spoiled into thinking they can do whatever they want and only work when they feel like actually showing up. You are the boss.

    I know it’s not much of a start, but it is a couple of ideas at least to get the gears turning.

    And don’t try to take all of this on right NOW because for the next few days, you are going to be vulnerable and then most likely in a very deep sub drop.

    Also, you need to speak with L about the planned visit to your mother’s and my concerns and suggestions about you skipping the visit. Both for your mental well being as well as to teach her that she can’t just use you and manipulate you to get her way. It’s NOT okay.

    I love you precious. God I love you. I’m so, so gone on you right now. Simply flying for you and I can’t wait to have you back in my arms and curled in tight. Dream sweet, my love.

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