Self Care Is a Service

Today’s meditation was a ten minute #DailyCalm session from the @Calm.

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Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

The Vampire's Tale Tarot's Lovers card and a card from the Lights In Dark Places Affirmation Deck

Today’s draw is The Lovers card, which is traditionally a representation of love and relationships, long term contracts, harmonious unions, and making choices that are geared toward what is best for you.

The Lovers card has then been combined with a card from the Lights In Dark Places deck, which says, “You make a difference.”

If you aren’t taking care of yourself, then you aren’t taking care of others. After all, taking care of others takes energy and effort. If you’re unwilling to do the things needed to refill your own “cup” of energy, then you’re running that cup dry until there’s nothing left to give.

The message in today’s Lovers card and affirmation is a reminder that I personally often need to hear, and know many others that need to as well. It’s that efficiently and lovingly caring for others requires giving yourself rest and recuperation.

This means doing the things you love to do, resting when you need rest, giving your body the fuel and movement needed to keep it functional and mobile. These things aren’t optional, especially when expending energy on caring for others.

Take care of yourself, and in doing so the care you offer others will become easier to carry, and improve in quality as well.

DECKS USED:  THE VAMPIRE’S TALE TAROT AND LIGHT IN DARK PLACES AFFIRMATION DECK

#DiscordTarotholicsOct2026 Challenge
Prompts for October 22nd through 24th

Oracle Reading with The Rotten Tarot (Oracle)

Creepy: Is the thinning veil something to be feared?

The Veil – The veil is simply another form of the unknown. Many fear the unknown, and by the same turn, many fear the veil. In truth, though, both the veil and the unknown simply contain those things that we don’t yet know… both good and bad.

Therefore, whether the veil is something to be feared or not depends on your perspective and whether you choose to lean into curiosity, or choose to instead lean into the security of what is known.

Jack-o-Lantern: What extra protections may you need as the veil thins?

The Mime (tipped right and blocking The Veil) – Speak up! Communicate what is going on and what you need from others. Not just with those that walk beside you on your path, but also with those on the other side of the veil.

You tend to put up barriers between yourself and those on the other side of the veil during this time when the veil is thin, in order to avoid being overwhelmed. Communication of your needs is a better and healthier way to deal with the added sensitivity and sensory input this time of the year creates for you, though.

What do you need to focus on for self-care for this month’s full moon?

The Hill – Instead of fighting the good fight on those hills you’re willing to die on, during this full moon, hold back and enjoy the day, the grass, the clouds, and the fresh air. Sometimes, indifference to the efforts of others to disrupt your own pursuits and values is a far better response than engaging.

Other elements included in this reading:
Japanese Cherry Leaf as a Reminder of Life’s Fleeting Moments
Rose Quartz for Gentle Kindness to Self and Others
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  THE ROTTEN TAROT (ORACLE)

October Spooky Season Challenge by @MercuryTarot
Prompt for October 24th : What skeleton hides in my closet?

Lenormand Reading with The Oracle of Halloween Lenormand Deck

Reading Summary: You have a tendency to protect yourself against (Bear) social obligations and frivolity (Garden), when in truth it’s the communication coming in from the outside that you try to ignore that’s the real threat (Letter).

Take Away: Letters from G, messages from M, summons and subpoenas to testify…

You look at social situations as the bane of your existence, but the truth is that it’s these other missives that truly have your back up and tensions running high. They add extra tension to each and every other interaction and stressor in your life.

Ease up on your conditioned negative response to spending time with those that are actually good for you and your outlook, and instead cast the blame for your discomfort where it actually belongs.

Other elements included in this reading:
Wasp Hive Segment with Parmeliaceae Lichen for Easing Defense Mechanisms
Foraged Oak Branch with Moss and Lichen for Perseverance
Calcite for Gently Calming the Mind and Stimulating Insights
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  THE ORACLE OF HALLOWEEN (LENORMAND)

October Prompts by @forgotten.dumpling & @ml.mecham
Prompt for October 23rd and 24th
: sky unhitched / melting at the edges

Creative Writing Exercise with the Spooky Pumpkins Playing Cards Midnight Edition

on my back
I lie beneath the boughs
of evergreen trees
(Four of Spades atop Four of Clubs)

gazing up
at swaying pine needles
and the gray skies above
that dip low enough
to thread among treetops
(Jack of Diamonds)

and as wet drips land
to splat upon skin
I muse if the trees are weeping
or if the clouds are melting
one fine droplet at a time
(Seven of Hearts)

Other elements included in this reading:
Foraged Parmeliaceae Lichen for a “Breath of Fresh Air”
Moss Agate for Attracting Opportunities for Growth
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  SPOOKY PUMPKINS PLAYING CARDS

@owlandbonestarot #OctoberinBetween Challenge
Prompts for October 23rd

Tarot Reading with The Vampire's Tale Tarot

Hide – Five of Pentacles – You have a tendency to hide when you are struggling financially.

You choose to only share you vulnerabilities when you are seeking help. You hide when you are struggling with resources and finances, though, because you don’t want others to think you’re asking for a hand out.

Reveal – Three of Sword – You tend to reveal when you are struggling with your mental health.

You are much more comfortable sharing you mental health struggles, specifically because you’re far more comfortable asking for help that comes in the manner of emotional support or assistance that isn’t monetary in nature.

Prompts for October 24th

Offer – The Tower (tipped left) – Offer your past experiences up to others to help them in getting through their own challenges. You have a lot of experience and a lot of wisdom earned through those experiences. Don’t be shy in offering this knowledge to others so that they don’t have to repeat the unpleasant experiences that you’ve already gone through.

Accept – Seven of Wands atop Seven of Swords – Sometimes standing up for what you believe in and the values you live by is going to come at the loss of something else of value. It’s a matter of being true to yourself, even when being true to yourself is hard. It’s important to accept this is a part of life, and choose wisely when these situations come upon us.

Other elements included in this reading:
Dried Cedar Bundle for Protection from Negative Influences
Staghorn Sumac for Connecting with Nature and the Wild Within
Moss Agate for Attracting Opportunities for Growth
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  THE VAMPIRE’S TALE TAROT
Daily Self Kindness

I took home with me all the homemade peanut butter candies Ms B made. I don’t trust her not to throw them away because the batch wasn’t “perfect”.

🌕 Full Moon in Taurus – October 2026

Tomorrow is the full moon, and like all new moons and full moons, I did a spread aligned to the moon’s current themes as a part of my recognition of the moon’s cycle and influences upon us. Today’s spread is courtesy of @onyerbroom

Full Hunter's Moon Tarot Reading with The Mental Monsters Tarot

Hunting Me?

Nine of Swords atop Two of Wands – The anxiety of not having a firm plan in place makes you feel like you have a persistent target on your back. There are too many variables up in the air at this time, and not only did it put on hold and/or decimate the plans previously in place, it’s preventing you from making new ones.

Not Catching?

Queen of Wands – At this time there’s a lot of upheaval in your life that is preventing you from following your nature. That disconnect is uncomfortable for you. Remember that just as the sunflowers only bloom briefly, this too will pass. Find what you can to enjoy from it for the time being.

Bring Home?

Queen of Cups – Don’t close off your emotions during this time of difficulty. Instead, hold them close and explore them with gentle tenderness. Be kind to yourself and let others step in to help support you emotionally.

Full Moon advice from the Minoan Goddess Amalthea.

Two of Swords – Don’t allow your feelings of uncertainty and fear of what may be coming to convince you that waffling in indecision is better than decisive action.

Other elements included in this reading:
Dried Lavender Bundle for Calming and Comfort
Foraged Oak Branch with Moss and Lichen for Perseverance
Dried Rosebuds for Potential and Beauty Waiting to Unfold
Desert Rose for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: THE MENTAL MONSTERS TAROT

Gideon’s Challenge – Curious

The Autumn Path

Curious

gray skies and
intermittent raindrops
greet a cooling day
as booted feet
tread over
pine needle carpets
and worn
saturated wood
as each step
sates a small trickle
of curiosity
that leads on
into forever

Photo © ZenStatePhotography

Ripples of Kindness

Today’s meditation was a ten minute self-guided session based upon a motivational quote that says, “Don’t worry if you make waves simply by being yourself. The moon does it all the time.”

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Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

The Gothic Tarot's World Card and a card from Lights In Dark Places Affirmation Deck

Today’s draw is The World card, which is traditionally a representation of the end of a journey, accomplishment, the completion of a time of growth, and transitioning from one path in life to another.

The card has then been combined with a card from the Lights In Dark Places deck, which says, “You may think your light is small, but it can make a big difference in other’s lives.”

The truth is? At the end of the day (or our life, for that matter) we have no idea how many people we have helped.

Whether it be a random smile at a stranger, being a role model to someone we would never expect, offering a sincere “are you okay?” to another, etc. All of these things create a ripple of influence on the lives of others that we aren’t even aware of making. Sometimes these ripples are small, and other times they are life changing.

The message in today’s World card and affirmation card is a reminder to be kind to one another. You affect more than just your own life when you do. Like ripples on water, each interaction with others creates influence in their lives. These cards encourage us to strive to be a positive influence in the world through focusing on being your authentic self and in striving to be the kinder, better person you want to grow into.

DECKS USED:  THE GOTHIC TAROT AND LIGHTS IN DARK PLACES AFFIRMATION CARDS

October Spooky Season Challenge by @MercuryTarot
Prompts for October 22nd and 23rd

Oracle Reading with the Reflections on the Wall: Cthulhu Mythos Oracle Classic Edition

Should I work alone or with others?

Old Ones – “Seek out opportunities to socialize. Broaden your horizons. Step out of your comfort zone.”

Clearly, this card is telling you that you need to work more with others instead of isolating yourself.

When you open yourself to working with others, you are allowing their influence, perspectives, and skills to join with your own. This makes working together more powerful and dynamic than working alone. That, in turn, then fosters greater success.

Who should I seek guidance from?

Star Vampire – “Enhance cognition. Broaden horizons. Pinpoint the source of your fear. Be prepared… Overcome fear with an indomitable spirit.”

Connect with those that can help bolster your mind and spirit for the challenges of the unknown. Remember that when you confront your fears, they are forced to shrink down to size. Reach out for those that help you in feeling strong and capable, and allow them to bolster you for whatever hurdles come your way.

Other elements included in this reading:
Clear Quartz for boosting Mental Clarity
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  REFLECTIONS ON THE WALL CTHULHU MYTHOS ORACLE

October Prompts by @forgotten.dumpling & @ml.mecham
Prompt for October 22nd :
rotting skyline

Creative Writing Activity with the Cerberus the Hellhound Playing Cards

twilight brings a dance of lights
shimmering in the dark
in a promise of life and warmth
(Queen of Diamonds atop Eight of Spades)

and through the night they shine
beautiful and bright
like stars fallen to ground
(Ten of Hearts)

but when daylight comes
crumbling spires reveal
a city in decay
(Jack of Spades)

the bombs destruction clear to see
with buildings falling into the sea
and society rotting away
(Three of Spades)

Other elements included in this reading:
Foraged Parmeliaceae Lichen for a “Breath of Fresh Air”
Beech Pod for Realizations that Foster Personal Growth
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  CERBERUS PLAYING CARDS

@owlandbonestarot #OctoberinBetween Challenge
Prompts for October 22nd 

Tarot Reading with The Gothic Tarot

Follow – Eight of Pentacles – Allow others to teach you new methods and skills, then master these skills for yourself.

There’s so much more still to learn and explore. Let yourself wander down the path of discovery that can gift you greater skills and abilities.

Curiosity is your friend, and so is that determination and persistence that allows you to develop your curiosity into new skill sets and expertise.

Lead – Judgement – When you stay focused on who you want to become and how you want to see yourself and your life at the end of the road, you encourage others to do the same. This inspiration helps make the world a better place a little bit at a time.

Other elements included in this reading:
Staghorn Sumac for Connecting with Nature and the Wild Within
Gneiss Stone for Patience in Moments of Discomfort
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  THE GOTHIC TAROT
Daily Self Kindness

I had myself a good cry in the shower, and -didn’t- linger afterward to space out and lose time.

Gideon’s Challenge – Determination

Bear Totem in Vancouver, BC

Determination

push a little harder
take a few more steps
let the pain inspire
a spark of willpower
and expense
as a grimace
and growl
rises from within
seek a few more steps
to get you to the end

Photo © ZenStatePhotography

The Power Outage

Today’s meditation was a ten minute self-guided session based upon a quote by Thich Nhat Hanh that says, “To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.”

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Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

Hopeless Maine Tarot's Queen of Wands and a card from the Lights in Dark Places Affirmation Cards

Today’s draw is the Queen of Wands (Flames), which is traditionally a representation of a receptive alpha energy, personality, or person in the area of one’s passion, drive, willpower, determination, values, and principles. This often translates into themes that have to do with being supportive of others projects and passions, or searching for inner truth within your own values and principles.

The card has then been combined with a card from the deck, which says, “Be patient with yourself. Even the moon needs time to be full.”

Stop being so hard on yourself for being in a slump… even a long slump. You’ve been in (and are still in) a depressive episode. Allow yourself the time you need to claw yourself back to the surface. At the moment that is where your focus needs to be. Not on beating the hell out of yourself for not meeting unreasonable expectations.

The message in today’s Queen of Flames and affirmation card is that your passions aren’t dead, you’re just experiencing a power outage. Be patient. It’s taken you a while to realize that you’ve been struggling in the dark. It’ll take still more time to pull yourself out of the pit so that you can once more reach the light switch.

DECKS USED:  HOPELESS MAINE TAROT AND LIGHTS IN DARK PLACES AFFIRMATION DECK

October Spooky Season Challenge by @MercuryTarot
Prompt for October 21st : What kind of magic works best for me?

Oracle Reading with the Stephen King Villain Clans Collector Packs

Reading Summary: The kinds of magic that work best for you are solitary, nature infused magic (The Outsider and the green in the background of the card) where you don’t have to worry about external interference from other people (Anne Wilkes / Misery) or other entities (The Monkey).

Take Away: You are at heart a solitary witch. Your spiritual practice and your magic are uniquely your own, and you don’t work well with others very often as a result.

It isn’t that you aren’t happy to help others understand your practice, it’s that your mores, values, ethics, and practices don’t always match up with that of others, and you find that when working with others their intent sometimes doesn’t match your own in the workings.

This weakens the magic and makes it disharmonous, and for you that makes the magic not worth doing in the first place.

Other elements included in this reading:
Staghorn Sumac for Connecting with Nature and the Wild Within
Foraged Purple Heather Sprigs for Independence and Luck
Conch Shell Knot for Concentration, Clarity, and Determination
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  STEPHEN KING VILLAIN CLANS PACK I & II

October Prompts by @forgotten.dumpling & @ml.mecham
Prompt for October 21st
: if Autumn was a life coach

Creative Writing Activity with the Vintage Halloween Playing Cards

get your act together now
winter is on the way
find you coat and gloves
and put the shorts away
(Three of Clubs and Seven of Spades)

make sure the gutters
allow water to flow through
for the chances are quite high
torrential rains are coming to you
(Eight of Hearts and King of Clubs)

take some time to go outside
and breathe some fresh clean air
because once winter is here
there will be no more warm days to spare
(Queen of Diamonds and Ten of Spades)

Other elements included in this reading:
Staghorn Sumac for Connecting with Nature and the Wild Within
Foraged Parmeliaceae Lichen for a “Breath of Fresh Air”
Japanese Cherry Leaf as a Reminder of Life’s Fleeting Moments
Flower Agate for Opening the Mind to New Possibilities
Carnelian Agate for Inner Drive and Focusing On Aspirations
Desert Rose for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  VINTAGE HALLOWEEN PLAYING CARDS

@owlandbonestarot #OctoberinBetween Challenge
Prompts for October 21st

Tarot Reading with the Hopeless Maine Tarot

Remember – Knight of Crows (Swords) – To bring your clever mind into the equation when making decisions.

Acting impulsively won’t serve you well, but a little strategy mixed in definitely will. It’s not so much about whether you act quickly or not, but whether or not you’re taking a moment to think things through first before you act.

That pause may only need to be a moment, or may require stepping away and coming back later. The key is in taking it to get in a bit of forethought before you take action.

Forget – Seven of Flames (Wands) – Forget those that don’t share your values and are violently opposed to your point of view. You don’t need them.

Other elements included in this reading:
Foraged Parmeliaceae Lichen for a “Breath of Fresh Air”
Foraged Acorns for Protection during New Beginnings
Carnelian Agate for Inner Drive and Focusing On Aspirations
Desert Rose for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  HOPELESS MAINE TAROT
Daily Self Kindness

I spent some time crawling around on the floor pulling a few decks from the bottom shelves today.