Unpacking the Chest

Today’s meditation was twenty-five minutes long, and was not a guided meditation.  Instead, I did a retreat into my “mental safe place” for a time.   I will do a post about this in the future to fully describe it for you.

Essentially, though, what this meditation entails is immersing yourself into a daydream.  Specifically, a daydream that you use to find peace and calm.  Your personal paradise, to be exact.      You then spend the time exploring this place, including touching in with all of your senses in the process.

Today’s draw was (instead of IS, because it’s now the very end of the day today) the King of Brine (aka the King of Cups).  This card is traditionally a representation of a projective alpha energy, personality, or person in the area of emotions, creativity, relationships, and intuition.  It follows along the themes of authority, as all the kings do, but in the flavor of diplomacy and emotional balance. Among other things, it can also indicate a time of inner work on the self or that emotional manipulations are afoot.

When I looked at this King of Cups card this morning, what stuck out to me was the baby crocodiles and the delicate shells tucked in the upper and lower corner.  When you think of the crocodile, thoughts of tenderness and nurturing are not usually a part of that equation.  And yet what you see here is delicateness that is existing alongside the “brute” of the full grown croc.

Like most King of Cups cards, the representation in this King of Brine card makes me think of you.  Your power  and your dominant nature, and the tenderness underneath that allows for me to learn and grow in the area where my knowledge and experience is at my weakest… my emotions.

I met you when I was just 19 and when most are just starting out at life.  I’d already been on my own for just over three years and was very much getting my ducks in a row.  But I was emotionally stunted, as I spent the majority of my life closing myself off to my deeper emotions.  You held the key that opened that box I had buried so deeply.

I did not understand the depth of this card when I saw it this morning.  But since then, I’ve done a reading that clarified it much better.  I will include a summary of that reading at the bottom of this post, but suffice to say that the appearance of the King of Brine today is a reminder that your support is there for me whenever I need it, no matter the depth of that need.

The Reading:

I did the #TarotForGrowthSeptember prompt from Instagram.

Question: Where may it be beneficial for me to ask for help?

Reading Summary: There was once a very hard working man that thought he knew everything, but he really still has much to learn in the area of his emotions.

Take Away: This is pretty much the story of me when I met you. I worked hard, and I thought I had everything worked out and under control. Then you arrived and showed me that there was an entire aspect of myself that I’d buried and ignored. Eleven and a half years later, and I’m still unpacking that chest I’d once buried so deeply… and I still need your help to work through it all.

With the series of drops that I’ve been going through lately, and the family matters that are coming up at the end of the month, I’m sure I am very much going to need help emotionally in working through what comes up and learning how to deal with it and balance it all into the rest of my life.

Decks Used: Stolen Child Tarot, Morgan Greer Tarot


One thought on “Unpacking the Chest

  1. (Second version of his response as Miss Thing decided to come over and delete the first with her big face on my keyboard)

    First of all I want to apologize for dozing off on you last night. Yesterday was a busy yet productive day and when things finally got still and silent the day just kinda caught up with me and out I went.

    I did, however, carry you off with me into my dreams. I can’t recall any details(as is the usual for me) though I do distinctly remember you there and a very protective energy in me in regards to you.

    Now I’d like to know where you go to find that “safe space” and have you describe that daydream where you to go escape when your emotions overwhelm you.

    When I first saw this post and the draw card, I immediately thought “Hey that’s me” *Chuckles* I love that I can be both the energy that draws you out into the deep, deep waters and holds you down to “drown” you and the anchor that holds you steady in a storm tossed sea. I love that I can be the one to nurture and protect you when you are feeling small and vulnerable. I love being where you run to hide when those emotions become too much. And I love too that I can be the balance that helps you find your way back to peace and calm once the storms have passed.

    I enjoyed hearing our story again through your eyes, our beginning and your struggle as we tore down those thick walls you had built around you. I love that I can still be that be that protection for you, that anchor that keeps you from being swept away. And most of all, being the one who reminds you that you are strong and talented and beautiful. That you can weather -any- storm life throws at you and I am always, always here to help you find the shore.

    I want you to remember, during your drop and especially on your trip when family is sure to try and tear you down…

    You are braver than you believe,
    Stronger than you seem,
    Smarter than you think,
    And loved more than you know.

    You are beautiful, my love and I am always, always right here for you. No matter how deep or angry the waters, no matter how vicious the storm…all you have to do is reach for me and I’m there.

    I love you, precious love. Always and forever


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