The prompt for this reading came from one of my Discord servers and is as follows: “I know it’s been a hot minute due to be “flooded” by work, so let’s talk to our divination method of choice about what we have too much of in our lives, and what we can do to get rid of the excess and keep only what we need!”
What do I have too much of in my life?
You provide too much stability (Queen of Diamonds) for your loved ones(Two of Hearts). This comes naturally to you, and is a part of who you are. Providing those you care about with a feeling of stability is how you show your love. At the same time, you can often go too far in this, neglecting yourself as a result.
How can I best let go of the excess and keep only what I need?
You need to allow them to build up their own strength (Queen of Hearts) with a bit of your guidance to foster their learning (Jack of Spades) rather than doing it all for them. There is something to be said for personal experience. When you do things for others instead of letting them experience things for themselves, you rob them of the experience that can help them become more well rounded individuals.