The guided meditation topic for today’s meditation was mindful eating and spoke about how lots of people have food issues from overeating to underrating for a variety of reasons including emotional issues, scarcity issues, etc. I personally have my own issues with food, although in my case it’s about not being able to balance out my metabolism and nutritional needs. This means that I eat a -lot- of food, and considering my addictive personality issues? It’s probably a good thing that I need to.
That said, the topic of the meditation was that we need to take more time to really sink into and enjoy our food, focusing on the flavors and textures and satiation aspect available in every bite. I do this quite often, but not all the time. I think everyone does a little “mindless eating” now and then and that it’s natural, although I can see how being more mindful of the food put into your mouth could possibly turn around some food related issues.
Today’s draw is the Two of Cups, which is traditionally a representation of unions, duality, and partnerships in the area of one’s emotions, relationships, and creativity. This often comes across as harmonious attractions and themes of mutual attraction, although not always in a romantic manner.
Like most of the other cards that I’ve pulled from this deck so far this month, it isn’t any one specific element in the imagery that catches my attention. Instead this deck seems to communicate most strongly to me through color and composition.
What I see in this imagery today is harmonious flow. Sometimes, harmony isn’t about equality, nor is it about balance. Sometimes it’s about working together and allowing each other’s differences to compliment each other and support each other.
It’s us. You and me. We are so very different, and yet together we are more than we could ever be apart. We support each other, and we provide something each of the other of us doesn’t have. It’s our differences that create the perfect fit and harmonious union that we have with each other.
I love you.
DECK USED: BOTAN TAROT
Reading Summary: Libido fluctuations (imagery in Temperance) weighing heavily (Two of Coins) and creating repressed feelings of responsibility and failure (Knight of Cups Rx).
Side Note: I was actually starting to wonder if I’d be able to read this deck. It’s communication is a bit different than what I’ve encountered in the past and I’m struggling with it a bit. I’ve used it in a few readings thus far, but tossed out the readings because they weren’t “flowing” with my intuition.
Take Away: I need to work at not considering my libido fluctuation as an actual failing on my part. It hasn’t been the same since the cancer and my RPLND, and I get it. I get that all of that changed things, but I feel so fucking guilty about it having changed and like I’m not giving enough anymore.
I know that our relationship is so much more than just sex… but sometimes I feel like such a fucking failure in this area.
DECK USED: ENGLISH MAGIC TAROT
#DiscordTarotholicsSep2020 Challenge Prompt
Question: What makes me feel… Excited / Happy / Calm
Creation. Manifestation. Giving birth to something new. An idea that is then brought into the real world. This excites me. Sometimes my ideas never make it to reality, other times they will eventually but have to be put on the back burner a while first. But when my creative ideas really do get to be brought forward, worked on, and developed into something real and tangible instead of just concept and thought? That excites me, no matter how many times it happens.
What makes me feel happy?
It makes me happy to know that I’m on the right path. Knowing that my intuition and moral compass are taking me in the right direction for me, and helping me to not just survive but thrive from one day to the next. Even when I don’t do things how everyone else does, even when I often see things differently, or process things differently… in the end, my intuition and moral compass continue to steer me right and keep me on track and flourishing.
What makes me feel calm?
Two of Cups
This completely relates back to my COTD pull for today, which is to say… what makes me feel calm is Gideon. Not just Gideon, but the fact that he is so very different than I am, so I know that I can go to him for whatever I need, whether that be perspective, support, or even validation. He is the “missing piece” that helps me find my balance when I’m feeling off kilter.
DECK USED: SCIENCE TAROT
#ConnectWithYourDeckChallenge by E Roebuck-Jones
Question: How do I inspire others?
Reading Summary: In times of uncertainty (The Moon) I inspire others to see what is good in their life (Nine of Pentacles) and to go after their heart’s desires (Knight of Cups).
Take Away: This is something that I really enjoy in life. It brings me great pleasure to help people work through the shadows of uncertainty and clouded darkness of one’s illusions of pessimism to see that there really is value in their life and they are worth the motivation and effort needed to obtain their dreams. It’s a part of that pleasure that I take in helping others find the path that works for them. I very much hope that what the cards say here is true.