Balancing Hope and Practicality

Today’s meditation was eleven minutes long, and was one of the #DailyCalm sessions in the @Calm app.

Today’s session was called “Breath; in three acts” and took the listener through an activity where you observe the breath for a full minute, counting how many breaths you take within that 60 seconds in time.   Then, for the “second act”, you take a full minute where you control your breathing to take full, deep breaths slowly in and out, filling your lungs all the way full with each inhale, then slowly easing the breath out on the exhale.  Then, for the “third act” you do another minute where you breathe naturally and count your breaths again for the full 60 seconds.

The notation is that you take less breaths in the third act than you did in the first, demonstrating that in having taken time to do some deep breathing, it helps ease your central nervous system and thus your breath and your body as a whole.      For me in this session, the difference was 10 breaths in the first act, and 6 breaths in the third act.

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Soul Creatures Tarot - Seven of Cups - Will o' the WispThe @GlitterbyInk #AprilFinds25 Challenge
Lost and Found Prompt for April 11 : Hope

Today’s draw is the Seven of Cups (Will o’ the Wisps), which is traditionally a representation of themes having to do with having a plethora of options to choose from, all of opportunity’s doors being open upon one’s path, and at times being overwhelmed by the sheer number of choices available in the moment.

The message in today’s card when combined with the prompt of “hope” is to remember not to let hope overshadow your good sense.

Hope is an integral part of being human, but its important to balance hope with practicality, especially when making important decisions.  If we don’t stay in touch with practicality and common sense during these times, hope can lead us astray into the land of unrealistic expectations.  This, in turn, can cause us to make bad choices when there are better ones on offer to us.

Don’t get me wrong. Hope is important. The key is in balancing it with unbiased practicality (not to be mistaken for negativity or pessimism, which are not unbiased), so that we don’t end up lead astray.

DECK USED: SOUL CREATURES TAROT

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Prompt for April 11
: What do you need to focus on for self-care for this month’s full moon?

Éclosion l'OracleReading Summary: It’s time to take a look at your trapped (enfermement) shadows (ombre) in a new light (évolution).

Take Away:  You (and to be fair, many) view shadow work as something that’s a trial, sometimes a trial through fire.  Hard and painful, an uphill slog through difficult emotional and psychological terrain.

Shadow work does not always have to be difficult, though. Sometimes it just means setting free to let breathe a part of yourself that you have been hiding from the world.

Owning a part of yourself as you own your mistakes and flaws, instead of judging that part of yourself so harshly and trying to pretend it doesn’t exist.  Looking inward with honesty doesn’t have to be torturous or painful.  It just means being honest with yourself, no matter what.

Other elements included in this reading:
Dried Red Maple Leaves for Adaptability and Connection
Conch Shell Knot for Concentration, Clarity, and Determination
Cedar Heart with Feather Moss Sprout for Protection of Understanding
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: ÉCLOSION L’ORACLE

Daily Self Kindness

I spoke with Gid about how I was feeling and what I was worrying about concerning new writing characters we were working on creating, rather than keeping it to myself as I wanted to do. It turns out I was misinterpreting his creative block as something it wasn’t.

Defensiveness and Fear

Today’s meditation was skipped.

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Forest Realm Tarot - Nine of SwordsThe @GlitterbyInk #AprilFinds25 Challenge
Lost and Found Prompt for April 10 : Regret

Today’s draw is the Nine of Swords, which is traditionally a representation of nightmares, anxiety, insomnia, and negativity in one’s thoughts and inner narratives.

How high are your walls? How defensive are you to advice or suggestions that you immediately jump to taking them as criticism or cruelty?

When we misinterpret others input in these ways, we push people away and keep them at arms length. They didn’t have to take the time to bother with you, but did. Why? Could it be because they care either about you, or about the end results of something that you also care about?

If so… why push them away in such a manner when they could instead prove useful or of value to you in the long run?

Today’s Nine of Swords encourages us to not hold people at a distance just because of feelings of unwarranted fear or defensiveness.  You could end up regretting it in the end if you do.

DECK USED:  FOREST REALM TAROT

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Prompts for April
7th and 8th

Oracle Reading with The Flower Speaks OracleWhat is your greatest weakness?

Lady’s Mantle – Self-forgiveness and self-compassion are themes that you find difficult to connect with, let alone act on.

How can you release/relieve this weakness?

White Clover – Continue to work at focusing on a more optimistic viewpoint and practicing those things that further this lean into positivity. Activities such as your meditation, connecting with gratitude, and focusing on the present to savor the moment and those things within it can help you to connect more effectively with themes of self-forgiveness and self-compassion.

What is your greatest worry?

Sage – Your greatest worry is that you will miss the signs of approaching trouble, and thus give that trouble an “in” to disrupt your life and your sense of stability.

How can you release/relieve this worry?

Stem – Sometimes protection is less about vigilance and more about the energy you project. If you project the energy of a victim or an easy target, you will be made the victim. On the other hand, when you project strength, you warn off danger even in times when you may not see it coming.

What is your greatest fear?

Black Iris – Your greatest fear is  in being helpless during difficult struggles that escalate from a time of organic change that even though difficult is not destructive, into a full-on mass destruction type of chaotic change.

How can you release/relieve this fear?

Black Cohosh – Allow yourself to accept that changes (even the destructive chaotic ones that feel like the end of the world) are a natural part of life, and something that we all must go through again and again as a part of life’s cycles. Focus on what comes after the end, instead of the end itself.

Other elements included in this reading:
Cedar Smoke Cleansing Bundle for Protection
Foraged Pin Oak Leaf for Strength and Endurance
Dried Rhododendron Leaf for Fostering Confidence
Foraged Norway Maple Key for Bouncing Back to Thrive
Rose Quartz for Gentle Kindness to Self and Others
Aventurine Goddess for Harmony and Balance of the Heart
Selenite Tree of Life Disk for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: THE FLOWER SPEAKS ORACLE

Daily Self Kindness

I rested today instead of doing a full orders day in an effort to kick out this cold or whatever it is before it can actually take hold. I’m not sure how well it worked yet, but I’ve definitely gotten a lot of rest.

Know When to Walk Away

Today’s meditation was skipped.

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Wisdom of the Depths Tarot - Eight of CupsThe @GlitterbyInk #AprilFinds25 Challenge
Lost and Found Prompt for April 9 : Trust

Today’s draw is the Eight of Cups, which is traditionally a representation of withdrawal, abandonment, or letting go of things, situations, or people in your life that are just not working out for you emotionally.

Trust your gut to know when it’s time to walk away is the message offered in today’s card.

Casinos are the bane of my existence.  They are one of those places that I’m “required” to visit now and then for the enjoyment of others in my life, but that I personally despise.

To me, they are the land of overstimulation and desperation that I must wade through while watching again and again as people “win big” and then lose it all. Sometimes within minutes.

The message in today’s Eight of Cups is a reminder of that addictive cycle between ego and despiration. It says… Don’t be greedy. You aren’t invincible. Know how to walk away while you’re still on top.

DECK USED:  WISDOM OF THE DEPTHS TAROT

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Philosophical Questions for April 2nd and 9th

Gentle Chaos OracleWhat does it mean to live a good life?

The Wedding Day Roses and The Ocean – To live a good life is to love well and often, with an inconceivable vastness; so that when we look back on our lives at the end of it, we see a great sea of love stretching out into the past.

Is personal growth required to live a good life?

The Path and The Moon Pie – Personal growth is part of living as a whole, touching us on each step of our path while still allowing us to retain bits of our past along the way.So, no, personal growth is not required to live a good life, but instead is simply an inevitable part of living.

Other elements included in this reading:
Small Scallop Shell for Connecting to One’s Emotions
Aragonite for Fostering Truth, Understanding, and Clarity
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: GENTLE CHAOS ORACLE

Daily Self Kindness

I have felt exhausted and run down all day today.  I’ve tried resting and have begun taking Cold FX to help boost my immune system, as I’m starting to wonder if I might be coming down with something.

Finding the Positive for April 7 – 8

Day Dream Tarot's Hierophant and Student Tarot's Five of Cups

April 7 – Mental Health Card of the Day

Today’s meditation was eleven minutes long, and was one of the #DailyTrip sessions from the @Calm app. The session for today was about anger, and focused on encouraging taking a breath when a flash of anger comes out of nowhere instead of reacting right out of the gate.

The narrator pointed out that anger often can speak to us about our values and what we deem as important in our lives. In taking a breath before we react to sudden surges of anger, it allows us to acknowledge where that anger is truly coming from and if what we are reacting to is really a threat.

In turn, this allows us to act in a more calm and strategic way that leaves our ego out of the equation.

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Lost and Found Prompt for April 7 : Forgiveness

Today’s draw is the Hierophant card, which is traditionally a representation of traditions, spiritual guidance, long standing institutions, teachers and guides, and themes that deal with conformity and social norms.

The card for today is a reminder that sometimes the knowledgable also learn from the young and inexperienced.  Although we often look upon our elders and ancestors as guides filled with knowledge, it’s important to remember that they are also human too, and thus fallible and still learning.

They are not perfect. We should absolutely treat them and what they have to offer in knowledge, experience, and traditions with respect  We also need to remember not to go so far as to put them on a pedestal so high that the answer “I don’t know” becomes an unforgivable sin, or makes them then feel obsolete to us moving forward.

It is our responsibility to cherish and respect what they have to offer us without falling into the trap of expecting them to know everything and give us all the answers.

DECK USED: DAY DREAM TAROT

April 8 – Mental Health Card of the Day

Today’s meditation was eleven minutes long, and was one of the #DailyCalm sessions from the @Calm app. The session was about effort, and how sometimes it’s not about how much effort you put into something, but if you can relax into it and let things flow.

The thing is, sometimes when we put in effort what we’re doing is over-achieving.  Like with meditation. If you focus too hard on trying to do it perfectly, what happens is that you end up not doing it at all.  Instead you sit there tense and straining instead of relaxed in the moment.

This is true for many other endeavors in our lives as well, and the meditation today encouraged looking at those places where we are straining with our efforts, and consider if we might not get there more easily if we ease off a bit on just how hard we’re pushing.

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Lost and Found Prompt for April 8 : Generosity

Today’s draw is the Five of Cups, which is traditionally a representation of apathy, boredom, sour grapes, pessimism, and discontent.

Combined with the prompt of “generosity” for today, the Five of Cups encourages checking in with yourself when you are feeling a sense of disappointment to ensure that you are coming at the experience not from a place of pessimism, but through an optimistic lens instead.

When we lean into negativity, whether that is negative emotions or negative inner thoughts, it only furthers more negativity and more unhappiness. Bad things happen and there’s no avoiding that, but we can look at these bad things pessimistically, which increases our feelings of discontent and disappointment… Or, we can try to see the silver lining in disappointing moments, which allows us to more easily break free of feeding into a more pervasive negative mindset.

DECK USED: STUDENT TAROT v1

Pride as an Obstacle

Today’s meditation was skipped.

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Lost and Found Prompt for April 6 : Humility

Today’s draw is the Four of Cups, which is traditionally a representation of dejection, refusal of assistance, contemplative moments, meditation, and feelings of apathy.

Sometimes in life we have to accept that we need help, even when we don’t really want to. Even when we’re steadfast against the idea, in fact.

The Four of Cups drawn today combined with today’s “humility” prompt is a reminder not to let your pride get in the way of letting others lend a hand.

It can definitely sting sometimes to admit that we can’t do everything on our own, I know it does for me.  But I’ve also come to discover that letting others help means I have a bit more time and energy for the things I actually -want- to do, instead of always being stuck doing those things that need to be done but that I don’t really enjoy.

DECK USED:  SASSY DRAGONS TAROT STANDARD EDITION

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Prompt for April 6
: Do Spread 1

Focus on a relationship that is important to you, whether that relationship be a friendship, a family member, or a loved one.

Gaia Lessons From the Earth Oracle

What does this loved one need less of from you?

Valleys – Dips. You know how it’s said that all relationships have their ups and downs?  Dips are the downs in this equation. He needs less arguments and snap reactions, more unity and togetherness, less discord and push back.

What does this loved one need more of from you?

Magnetic Field and Mountains – More togetherness during times of struggle create a stronger bond and greater balance in your relationship as a whole. He really doesn’t want to have to do it all on his own, even when he pretends that he’s perfectly fine.

What in this relationship is being entirely neglected?

Beaches – A lot of the time that you share together is languid and quiet. Although enjoyable, you aren’t really doing anything together except stagnating. Some more attention to doing things together during downtime would resolve this aspect that is being neglected.

Other elements included in this reading:
Dried Bay Leaf for Protection From Negativity
Western Hemlock Cones for Balance During Disruptions
Foraged Douglas Fir Bark for Strength and Resiliency
Yellow Aventurine for Confidence
Rose Quartz for Gentle Kindness to Self and Others
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: GAIA : LESSONS FROM EARTH

Daily Self Kindness

I took a nap and tried to do a bit of relaxing today. I also had the best fried chicken ever made, sent home with me by Ms B.

Finding the Positive for April 3 – 5

Reigning Rouge Tarot Ace of Pentacles, Bad A** Unicorns Tarot Ace of Swords, Crybaby Tarot Wheel of Fortune

April 3 – Mental Health Card of the Day

Today’s meditation was ten minutes long, and one of the #DailyCalm sessions in the @Calm app. Today’s session was about reconnecting to the artist that resides within us, born from the creativity and imagination of childhood.

Back then as a child, it didn’t matter if the end results of our creative play was good, it only mattered that it was fun. This disconnect from the end result created a joyous energy to creating that we often lack as adults, for as adults we’re too focused on avoiding feeling incompetent or foolish. This avoidance has us sticking to what we’re good at instead of exploring new things and creative exploration.

When we connect to creative play as if we are a child instead of an adult, we connect with the process of creating and the fun that it provides, and embrace a state of curiosity that allows our imagination freedom.

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Lost and Found Prompt for April 3 : Identity

Today’s draw is the Ace of Pentacles, which is traditionally a representation of the seed of new beginnings and new opportunities in the areas of one’s finances, resources, health, labors, manifestations, and the physical world.

I love making things. I love the process of bringing an idea to life, and experimenting with what is possible to create something new and different. This is how I became a jewelry designer.  The problem is? Something changes when your creative passion becomes your job.  Instead of being able to dive in and just -play- with the tools and materials of the craft you’re working on?  You have to worry about production time and value of the completed piece, as well as the pressure of making every piece beautiful and perfect.

The card for today is a reminder that sometimes we have to let go of being an adult and that “adult identity” that we carry with us as we grow out of our childhood… and just explore and experiment with something new and different.  And remember that its something you’re new at. It doesn’t have to be good, just fun.

DECK USED: REIGNING ROUGE TAROT

April 4 – Mental Health Card of the Day

Today’s meditation was eleven minutes long, and one of the #DailyTrip sessions in the @Calm app.

To be fair? I cannot remember what the session was about, and the little graphic and quote from the app is absolutely no help in figuring it out.  I was struggling not to doze off during the meditation today, and I honestly think I might have been better served by a nap instead.

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Lost and Found Prompt for April 4 : Fairness

Today’s draw is the Ace of Swords, which is traditionally a representation of the seed of new beginnings in the area of one’s thoughts, intellect, education, logic and reason, ambition, or communication.

The little quote on today’s card is “use it or lose it” which immediately made me think of all those “great ideas” and other thoughts that we have… and lose… before we can do anything with them.  It drives me -nuts- sometimes, thinking of all the good ideas that I’ve somehow lost on my way to being able to write them down or get started on them.

The thing is, though? There’s only so many hours in a day, only so many days in a week, and only so many weeks in a year.  That means there’s only so much time to spare exploring new ideas. It might not seem fair, but we have to pick and choose. We can’t go after them all, even if we want to.

So maybe that flitting idea that escaped before you could write it down or do anything about it isn’t disappearing into the ether because life’s unfair, but rather just because life’s busy and you don’t have time right now to fit another thing onto your plate.

DECK USED: BAD A** UNICORNS TAROT

April 5 – Mental Health Card of the Day

Today’s meditation was ten minutes long, and was one of the #DailyCalm sessions from the @CalmApp. The session for today was about the benefits of fostering a sense of calm in our lives so that we weather through difficult times more easily and with less disruption.

This is, in truth, the entire premise behind my meditation practice as a  whole. It’s the reason I meditate, for I need that extra bit of calm that it provides me.  Somehow, these ten minute sessions each day provide a touch of extra calm that is then carried on throughout the entire day.

That doesn’t mean that I don’t still experience anxiety or get worked up, but it means that it takes a little more to get me there, and it’s a little easier to come down from those moments.

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Lost and Found Prompt for April 5 : Commitment

Today’s draw is the Wheel of Fortune, which is traditionally a representation of luck (both good and bad), changing circumstances, the ups and downs of life, and the cyclical nature of life and the world.

In my practice, I often see the Wheel of Fortune through the viewpoint of a merry-go-round toy on a playground.  When you are on it and it spins, you can stand in the center and get dizzy but stay on board, or you can stand outside the center and let the force of the spin throw you off.

Combined with the “commitment” prompt for today, This card encourages us to stick with the things we feel are important, no matter what ups and downs my happen along the way.

It is up to us to brace at the center when things become chaotic so that those things we have committed ourselves to can ride out the storm instead of flying off into the ether to be discarded or forgotten.  Don’t let tough times cause you to give up on your dreams.  Those tough times might feel like they’ll last forever, but they’re only temporary. That’s just how life’s cycles work.

DECK USED: CRYBABY TAROT