tarot for mental health

A Little Morning Stability

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Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

The Re-Ection of Tarot - Queen of Pentacles

Today’s draw is the Queen of Pentacles, which is traditionally a representation of a receptive alpha energy, personality, or person in the area of one’s resources, financial stability, health, home, labors, manifestations, or other aspects of the physical realm. This often translates into a supportive or nurturing energy or entity in the areas of one’s health, home, and financial responsibilities.

The Queen of Pentacles has then been combined with an affirmation from the Affirmators! Morning Mantras deck, which says, “I radiate patience like a GD guru. (Mostly because I’m too exhausted this morning for tantrums)”

(I am embarrassed to confess I had to go look up what “GD” means to figure out it means goddamn. Bless those who put this type of information out there on the internet for old farts like me.)

My mornings are… well, pretty much identical from one day to the next. I wake up in pain, I get dressed, I eat and feed Miss Luna. I race to work. I work. I come home and shower and eat again. I do my physio/yoga and meditate. I do readings (for myself and for my clients). I eat again. From there? The day splinters off into different things depending on what’s needed or what’s scheduled from driving a few hours to go visit an elderly friend (or cross the Canadian border) to doing a shift or two at other jobs I hold down, to working on my business at home, etc. The mornings though? They all start off the same.

I don’t have time to be an ass. I don’t have time to be grumpy. I don’t have the energy to waste time on anything, which includes being unable to check my phone. And oddly? I like this stability and sameness. I’m not sure I could handle it in my entire day, but starting my day off with a stable daily routine helps me feel like each day is a little less chaotic.

The message in today’s cards asks us to consider what we might change or add to our lives to foster a greater sense of stability in our day to day? Maybe not checking the phone until you’re out of bed, or setting up a specific morning routine. Perhaps just stepping out on the balcony each morning for a breath of fresh air and a sip of tea or coffee. What might make your mornings a little better each day? And, in doing them each day, have the effect of encouraging your day to feel a bit better as well.

DECKS USED: THE RE-ECTION OF TAROT DECK AND AFFIRMATORS! MORNING MANTRAS

#DiscordTarotholicsMar2026 Challenge
Prompts for March 19th and 20th

Tarot Reading with Luna's Little Twin Stars Tarot and The Purring Prophet Oracle

What good is ready to come into bloom in your life with the approach of Spring?

The Hanged Man and Window Bird – You will be given the opportunity to slip back into a mental space where you can more easily understand the perspectives of others.

Sometimes when things are feeling chaotic, you have a tendency to step back from your observation of others and your efforts to understand what lies beyond yourself. These are moments in which you temporarily lose an important part of yourself.

The peace and pause that is coming your way will allow you to reclaim this part of yourself once more, giving you the space necessary to begin reaching for that greater sense of understanding your pursuit of alternate perspectives provides.

What can you do to encourage the arrival of this good?

Eight of Wands Rx and The Camera – Go slow and use these moments of slowness to ensure that you’re doing what you want, instead of simply performing for others wants and desires.

Others may take your slowing down as an opportunity for them to monopolize more of your time. Make sure that you have boundaries in place that will not allow this to happen. Your time and attention is your own… it does not belong to them to do with as they wish.

Other elements included in this reading:
Staghorn Sumac for Connecting with Nature and the Wild Within
Pressed Pansy Flower for Hearing the Heart More Clearly
Rose Quartz for Gentle Kindness to Self and Others
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: LUNA’S LITTLE TWIN STARS TAROT AND THE PURRING PROPHET ORACLE

@lightningwildflower‘s March Reflection to Action Challenge
Sun Enters Aries, Mercury Direct Prompt for March 20th : What decision am I ready to make?

Tarot Reading with The Re-Ection of Tarot

Reading Summary: To actively move forward (Knight of Wands) into a more self-serving mindset that leaves behind (Seven of Swords) your defensive feelings (Nine of Wands beneath Ace of Cups).

Take Away: The feelings from last fall in the “being picked on” variety have been hard to shake off as things continue to not go in the direction that you want them to. Part of the reason for this is because you are not being self-serving enough in your actions to resolve the problem.

Instead of hanging back and allowing your defensive emotions to take the wheel, it’s time to step forward and act in your best interests.

Set aside what isn’t working anymore, and move forward in the direction of your wants and needs with a selfish intensity.

Other elements included in this reading:
Black Spruce Needles to Boost Self-Confidence and Positive Thinking
Dried Purple Heather Flowers for Independence and Luck
Raku Bear Medallion for Protection and Stalwartness
Calcite for Gently Calming the Mind and Stimulating Insights
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: THE RE-ECTION OF TAROT DECK
Daily Self Kindness

I was in desperate need of a nap, and took one today instead of fighting it as I normally would.

More to Explore

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Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

Luminous Flow Tarot - King of Wands

Today’s draw is the King of Wands, which is traditionally a representation of a projective alpha energy, personality, or person in the area of one’s passions, drive, determination, principles, values, and willpower. The King of Wands often indicates themes that have to do with leadership figures or authority figures with the ability to rally others to their causes and draw them in to their own values, principles, and passions.

The King of Wands is then combined with an affirmation from the Pass Around the Smiles Positive Guidance Cards, which says, “You’re protected, it’s go time. You’re currently being protected. The universe has your best interest at heart. Move forward fearlessly. Have courage.”

All those things that you’ve wanted and pushed so hard to accomplish and experience… all of these experiences you’ve had and the lessons you’ve learned from them are now a part of you. A part of you that you can bring up and use whenever you need it.

Now is the time to experiment and try new things, then add these new things to the old things you’ve already learned and experienced. This is how you continue to grow and develop past your current successes and into the new ones yet to be explored.

The message in today’s King of Wands and affirmation card is a reminder that growth may be difficult and scary, but it’s not impossible. You just have to put that significant determination to the task, regardless of your fears of fucking it up. Be brave and be curious. Keep going. There’s still more yet to experience and explore.

DECKS USED: LUMINOUS FLOW TAROT AND PASS AROUND THE SMILE POSITIVE GUIDANCE CARDS

@recoverytrauma_’s Know Myself Questions for Self-Discovery
What Do I Truly Want? Prompts

Oracle Reading with the In2It Soul Expansion Trio Oracles

What kind of life do I want to create?

Discernment, Love and Compassion, Overachiever – A life of acceptance of self. A life where instead of beating yourself up for your perceived failings and inability to achieve lofty goals that you set up from the beginning to be out of your reach, you love yourself as you are and offer acceptance and compassion instead of self-flagellation.

What does peace look like for me?

Freedom, Willingness to Learn, Trust – Less control and more trust that things are going to turn out okay whether you have control of the situation or not.

Peace, at this time, is not having to be the one to fix everything, but instead trusting that everything’s going to be okay regardless of whether you step in to interfere or not.

What do I want more of in my life?

Hiking, Remaining Lighthearted, Sex – More play time outside, and more play time with your partner. In both of these cases, you desire the ability to let go and just have fun without allowing life’s stressors to get in the way of your enjoyment.

This is why “the drown” holds such a lure for you, because for a few blissful moments you can trust your partner to hold every shred of control and you are able to let go of everything except the experience you’re having in that moment.

What have I always dreamed of doing but haven’t started yet?

Listening, Dismantling False Belief Systems, Balance – The shadow work necessary to root out your deepest wounds from your past and create the balance needed to heal them. You’ve skirted around the edges of this practice, but there’s so much there to deal with that it quickly becomes too overwhelming.

What kind of people do I want around me?

Organizing, Claiming Full Responsibility, Rejection – People who are responsible enough to own their mistakes instead of running away from them or trying to pass them off onto others.

Other elements included in this reading:
Foraged Oak Branch with Moss and Lichen for Perseverance
Dried Cedar Bundle for Protection from Negative Influences
Foraged Red Oak Leaf for Fostering Unconditional Love
Wood Mushroom Token for Fostering Community Connections
Rabbit and Crow Medallion for harmonizing Curiosity and Caution
Bird Figurine for Fostering Hope, Positivity, and Renewal
Rose Quartz for Gentle Kindness to Self and Others
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: IN2IT’S SOUL EXPANSION TRIO

@lightningwildflower‘s March Reflection to Action Challenge
New Moon in Pisces Prompt for March 19th :What intuitive message deserves my attention?

Tarot Reading with the Luminous Flow Tarot

Reading Summary: Work with others who care about you and have earned your trust (Two of Cups and Eight of Pentacles) to combat the harsh judgments your inner critic keeps doling out (Judgement and Queen of Swords).

Take Away: Your loved ones are the counterbalance to your negative thoughts, even if it means sharing with them the things your inner narratives are saying.

Yes, it can be embarrassing, awkward, and even frightening to share these thoughts with others. You’ve seen in the past the surprise (and horror) on the faces of those you love when you share some of the things going on in your head.

That doesn’t mean you should be keeping these things to yourself. It means they need more practice in supporting you in this manner. It’s a skill. The more you share with them, the more skilled they will become in providing the support you need.

Other elements included in this reading:
Foraged Parmeliaceae Lichen for a “Breath of Fresh Air”
Dried Red Maple Leaf for Adaptability and Connection
Mookaite for Help with Weighing One’s Options
Citrine for Energy Lift (easing the weight of heavy energies)
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECKS USED: LUMINOUS FLOW TAROT
Daily Self Kindness

I slept in today… and it was glorious.

Getting a Better View

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The @GlitterbyInk #MarchMoments26 Challenge
The Edge of Wonder Prompt for March 18th : Equinox
Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

The Alchemical Tarot Renewed 4th Edition - The Chariot

Today’s draw is The Chariot card, which is traditionally a representation of control, willpower, determination, and the strength of purpose to “take the reins” and steer yourself in the path you wish to follow.

The Equinox is a time of balance. And just as the Autumn Equinox revolves around a slowing down and dampening of energies and life, the Spring Equinox is all about the quickening of energies and life.

When we look at the Chariot from the rear view as is shown in today’s card, we see that although the charioteer is in charge, he really doesn’t have the greatest view. He can’t see all that’s going on around him because he’s got two very large horse’s asses in his way.

This brings up the idea that sometimes having all the control isn’t really a good thing after all, because you can’t always see where you’re going. That means that even though you’re in charge, you may have a hard time navigating your way.

The message in today’s Chariot card combined with the “Equinox” spread suggests that instead of go, go, go all the time, we try stepping down and stepping aside, so we can see things from a better angle now and then. That involves slowing down and letting go of the reigns. Otherwise… you’re going to miss something important sooner or later.

DECK USED:  THE ALCHEMICAL TAROT: RENEWED FOURTH EDITION

@lightningwildflower‘s March Reflection to Action Challenge
Venus square Jupiter, Sun sextile Uranus Prompt for March 18th : Where am I tempted to overextend myself?

Tarot Reading with the After Tarot

Reading Summary: New ideas (Ace of Swords) have a tendency to spark new hope within you (The Star). Take care that you are not jumping the gun before you make sure it’s what you really want, though (Knight of Cups Rx).

Take Away: Flights of fancy can be fun, but they have a tendency to leave a mess in their wake, and put too much on your plate at one time. In fact, it’s that over-crowding on your plate that creates the mess in the first place, for you jump on board based on enthusiasm alone, and then drop the ball due to overwhelm.

Instead of getting excited about every little thing and diving in to try each one of them right away, step back and consider if the overwhelm you’re setting yourself up for is really the direction you want to go in. Perhaps writing the ideas down is a better option so that you can then take them on with a granule or two of moderation.

Other elements included in this reading:
Scotch Pine Cone for Purging Negative Influences
Foraged Parmeliaceae Lichen for a “Breath of Fresh Air”
Bird Figurine for Fostering Hope, Positivity, and Renewal
Desert Rose for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  AFTER TAROT

#DiscordTarotholicsMar2026 Challenge
Philosophical Question for March 18th : Is happiness an inherent desire or is it a learned value?

Tarot Reading with The Alchemical Tarot Renewed 4th Edition

Reading Summary: Once we’ve experienced happiness for the first time (Ace of Swords), it lights a fire within us to seek it out again and again (Two of Wands).

Happiness then becomes something that drives us (Queen of Swords) and can supersede other life goals if the desire for it is left unchecked (Temperance).

Take Away: Happiness is an addiction.

It’s not something we know until we experience it for the first time, which means it’s not an inherent desire. Instead, it’s something that, once experienced, we seek out again and again.

Therefore, these cards indicate that it’s a learned value that acts like an addiction.

Other elements included in this reading:
Foraged Red Oak Leaf for Fostering Unconditional Love
Green Jasper and Caribbean Calcite Turtle for Calm within Progress
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  THE ALCHEMICAL TAROT: RENEWED FOURTH EDITION
Daily Self Kindness

This is a catch up post, and I’m not entirely sure what the self kindness was for this day.

Bringing Issues to Light

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The @GlitterbyInk #MarchMoments26 Challenge
The Edge of Wonder Prompt for March 17th : Subconscious
Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

Tarot for Kids - Four of Wands

Today’s draw is the Four of Wands, which is traditionally a representation of one’s passionate love for the security and welcoming energies of home. This often translates into themes that have to do with homecoming, celebrating home and stability, as well as relaxation in comfortable spaces.

Home should be a place of celebration and happiness. A place where you return to a sense of safety and welcoming. If this isn’t how you feel when you walk through the door of your home, perhaps it’s time to look a little deeper and figure out why that’s the case.

What is it that you’re not acknowledging that’s keeping you from seeing your home in this way, and what can you do to change things to make that better?

The message in today’s Four of Wands card and “Subconscious” prompt is a reminder that our discomfort has a source. We may not be able to tell what’s causing these feelings at first glance, but with a little digging we can suss out what the subconscious is trying to tell us is needed. Once we have that knowledge brought out into the light, it’s far easier to make the changes needed to solve the problem.

DECK USED:  TAROT FOR KIDS

@recoverytrauma_’s Know Myself Questions for Self-Discovery
What Do I Need to Heal? Prompts (Part 2)

Tarot Reading with the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles Tarot

What does forgiveness (toward others) look like for me?

The Tower Rx atop Death Rx – For you, forgiveness towards others looks like choosing to stay and not walk away when things get hard or the path is troubled.

Because you have a low tolerance for those things that require forgiveness in the first place, the fact that you stay is a demonstration of the forgiveness that you are willing to give. Otherwise, you would just walk away.

What does forgiveness (toward myself) look like for me?

Two of Wands – You demonstrate forgiveness towards yourself in that you keep moving forward and making plans instead, of allowing yourself to be stymied into stagnancy.

This, in turn, means that often your moments of stagnancy are caused by a lack of self-forgiveness. Perhaps this is something to look at more in depth.

What do I need to hear more often from myself?

Ten of Wands – You need to remind yourself more often that you don’t have to carry all of that on your own, nor plow through until you’re finished. Put it down, take a breath, and take a break. Ask for help. Delegate.

Remember that the adage “if you want something done right, you have to do it yourself” is not necessarily true… especially if you’ve taught others the “right way” so that they can emulate your own efforts. Remember, as well, that sometimes there is no “right way” as long as it gets done… and these tasks are the first to begin handing off, which frees you up to give more attention to those things that actually need your personal touch.

Other elements included in this reading:
Dried Red Maple Leaf for Adaptability and Connection
Foraged Parmeliaceae Lichen for a “Breath of Fresh Air”
Rose Quartz for Gentle Kindness to Self and Others
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: TEENAGE MUTANT NINJA TURTLES TAROT

#DiscordTarotholicsMar2026 Challenge
Prompts for March 17th

Tarot Reading with the Tarot for Kids

How are you doing emotionally at this time?

The Tower and The Hierophant – You’re a mess, and trying to hold things together to appear as if you’re fine and all is at status quo, because that’s what you always do.

You are very good at pretending everything is fine when the world is burning to ash around you, and that’s exactly how you feel emotionally at this time.

How can you improve on this in the week ahead?

The Hanged Man and The World – Remember that it’s temporary. You are in subdrop and, with a little patience, you will come out the other side of it.

Close your eyes, take a breath, and wait.

Other elements included in this reading:
Pressed Pansy Flower for Hearing the Heart More Clearly
Foraged Oak Branch with Moss and Lichen for Perseverance
Labradorite for a Focus on Mental and Emotional Healing
Rose Quartz for Gentle Kindness to Self and Others
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  TAROT FOR KIDS
Daily Self Kindness

This is a catch up post, and I’m not entirely sure what the self kindness was for this day.

Conscious Alignment

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The @GlitterbyInk #MarchMoments26 Challenge
The Edge of Wonder Prompt for March 16th : Conscious
Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

The Animism Tarot - Seven of Pentacles

Today’s draw is the Seven of Pentacles, which is traditionally a representation of slow growth, sustainability, domestic harmony, hard work, and practicing patience while the fruits of your labors develop and take form.

Personal growth takes time and effort. It also takes self reflection and thought. There needs to be some idea on where you want to go and who you want to become, or growth can become stinted or take you in a direction you’d prefer not to go.

In my opinion, this is the key to personal growth. You have an idea on the type of person you want to become, and then you make the conscious choice to align you behavior and decisions to that idea.

Over time, you then transform more and more into that person.

The message in today’s Seven of Coins and “Conscious” prompt is a reminder that true personal growth comes through consistency over time. Yes, we all slip up from time to time. That’s not failure, it’s merely a rock we stumbled over along the way. Keep your choices aligned with the kind of person you want to be, and over time you’ll slowly discover you are becoming that person.

DECK USED:  THE ANIMISM TAROT

@lightningwildflower‘s March Reflection to Action Challenge
Prompts for March 16th and 17th

Tarot Reading with the Alice In Tarotland Tarot

Mental: Where can I soften my inner dialogue?

Six of Cups and The Devil – Looking back at the shit shows from your past causes you to relive their emotional pains again and again. It’s habitual emotional abuse that you inflict upon yourself without even realizing it most of the time.

Instead of digging up past hurts for punishment and pain, seek out the positive memories. In doing so, you hurt yourself less, and encourage yourself to welcome in more potentially positive experiences.

Physical: What does a sense of calm feel like in my body?

Page of Cups Rx and Knight of Cups Rx – Numbness.

This is why you like floating beneath the water’s surface. To you, a sense of calm involves a lack of emotion and thought. A pause spent in limbo. A tranquil moment of numbness.

So many things create physical sensation for you. Emotions. Sounds. Intuition. Mediumship. Energy. All of these things create a cacophony of physical sensations that no one else can “hear”. Moments of numbing give you a kind of peace and calm you are unable to find in your day to day. This is why that “beneath the water” limbo feels so calming to you both physically and mentally.

Other elements included in this reading:
Scotch Pine Cone for Purging Negative Influences
Japanese Cherry Leaf as a Reminder of Life’s Fleeting Moments
Garnierite for help in Releasing Anger, Anxiety, and Guilt
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: ALICE IN TAROTLAND TAROT

#DiscordTarotholicsMar2026 Challenge
Prompt for March 16th : What do you need to focus on for self-care for this month’s new moon?

Tarot Reading with The Animism Tarot

Reading Summary: Make choices (Two of Swords) that bring people together (Three of Pentacles) and put everyone on the same page (Six of Wands).

Take Away: When everyone is united in a goal to work towards together, things just go smoother as a result, and everyone involved feels a sense of pride and accomplishment.

You try too hard to take everything on your own shoulders, and you’ve been doing it so long that this means your first instinct is to cut others out and continue doing everything yourself.

Make sure you are working on catching yourself in those moments and making better decisions. Decisions that -include- others instead of excluding them. When you get everyone on the same page and moving in the same direction, the outcome is more satisfactory and you’re not left as exhausted in the end as you would be if you’d done it all yourself.

Other elements included in this reading:
Foraged Oak Branch with Moss and Lichen for Perseverance
Japanese Cherry Leaf as a Reminder of Life’s Fleeting Moments
Green Aventurine for Harmony and Balance of the Heart
Rose Quartz for Gentle Kindness to Self and Others
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  THE ANIMISM TAROT
Daily Self Kindness

This is a catch up post, and I’m not entirely sure what the self kindness was for this day.

Keep Moving

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Today’s meditation was a ten minute long #DailyTrip session from the @Calm app.

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The @GlitterbyInk #MarchMoments26 Challenge
The Edge of Wonder Prompt for March 15th : Momentum
Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

Ukiyoe Tarot - The Hermit

Today’s draw is The Hermit card, which is traditionally a representation of solitude, self reflection and introspection, alone time, and inner guidance.

Who says you have pause on your journey of self discovery? Who says that stillness is the answer?

Our lives are a journey and it is through the momentum that we keep things moving. Stagnancy is not healthy, and thus, even when we are in our deepest moments of self reflection, it’s important to acknowledge that movement is still necessary.

The message in today’s card and “momentum” prompt is a reminder that it’s important to keep moving.

Don’t stand still and wait for things (realizations, understanding, wisdom, success, etc) to come to you. Instead, continue to walk forward and meet them along the way.

DECK USED:  UKIYOE TAROT

#DiscordTarotholicsMar2026 Challenge
Prompt for March 15th : Do Spread 3
With the Spring Equinox just a few days away, the beginning of Spring is soon to be upon us.This spread is to help you find your footing as you move into the Spring season ahead.

Oracle Reading with the Animal Allies Birds Oracle

What to leave behind along with Winter’s chill

Owl – Sometimes the tried and true methods of the past just aren’t going to cut it. Leave behind the idea that the old ways of doing things are going to get you where you want to go. Consider some innovation. Try new things. The answer you’re looking for is there, but you might need to think outside the box to get to it.

What to take with you into Spring

Pelican – Lean into those around you to help you in finding the path forward that is the healthiest for you. It’s not so much that they advice or opinion is what you need, but their actual support and help. Don’t confuse the two, and remember that holding yourself apart just makes everything worse.

What needs exposed to the light and the world this Spring

Flamingo – Acknowledge the ways in which you are stronger than you think, and allow these qualities to shine. In doing so you create an unshakable foundation of strength and stability.

What needs kept close for further contemplation

Parakeet – Release you need to fight against the flow, and if you are unable to release it, then at least take the time to observe it instead of ignoring that you are reacting in this manner. It’s the first step to further growth, to acknowledge those things that are holding you back and making things harder than they have to be.

Other elements included in this reading:
Black Spruce Needles to Boost Self-Confidence and Positive Thinking
Dried Cedar Bundle for Protection from Negative Influences
Dried Rosebuds for Potential and Beauty Waiting to Unfold
Dried Purple Heather Flowers for Independence and Luck
Foraged Red Oak Leaf for Fostering Unconditional Love
Garnierite for help in Releasing Anger, Anxiety, and Guilt
Foraged Oak Branch with Moss and Lichen for Perseverance
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: ANIMAL ALLIES BIRDS ORACLE

@lightningwildflower‘s March Reflection to Action Challenge
Prompts for March 14th and 15th

Tarot Reading with the Ukiyoe Tarot

Momentum: What step forward feels brave and right?

King of Cups atop The Lovers – The more you lean into your partner to help you find emotional stability, the more emotional stability you’ll find.

Your self-destructive tendencies and outdated defense mechanisms try to hold you back from leaning on him as much as you could.

The more you do, though, the more you discover healthier ways to deal with your emotions , and the less likely you are to fall back on old unhealthy habits.

Mercury conjunct Mars: How can I channel passion into productive communication?

Nine of Wands Rx and Six of Cups – Instead of leaning into your defense mechanisms, no matter how familiar and comfortable they are, look at the more recent past and the love that has been given to you by him.

Trust in the dedication, integrity, and unconditional love that he has shown you over the nearly 18 years you’ve been together.

Other elements included in this reading:
Black Spruce Needles to Boost Self-Confidence and Positive Thinking
Dried Rosebuds for Potential and Beauty Waiting to Unfold
Dried Purple Heather Flowers for Independence and Luck
Foraged Parmeliaceae Lichen for a “Breath of Fresh Air”
Smoky Quartz for Introspection and Emotional Balance
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED:  UKIYOE TAROT
Daily Self Kindness

This is a catch up post, and I’m not entirely sure what the self kindness was for this day.