self help with tarot cards

The Freezing Point

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Today’s meditation was skipped.

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Tarot de Luz - Two of SwordsThe @GlitterbyInk #JuneSun25 Challenge
Summer Sunlight Prompt for June 9 : Storm

Today’s draw is the Two of Swords, which is traditionally a representation of crossroads, difficult decisions, needing more information, seeking inward for answers, weighing one’s options, and sometimes avoidance.

Don’t freeze. They all teach us about fight or flight, but no one tells us about the freeze. Maybe3 they think that if you have two options to choose from that freezing won’t happen? The thing is though; it does.

Fear, uncertainty, surprise, chaos, change… all of these can trigger that freeze response, making it difficult to move forward or make decisions.

It’s important that we recognize and acknowledge this natural tendency, as it can cause us to end up stuck in unpredictable or even dangerous moments and situations. When we are aware, it allows us to more easily move past that reaction and start making the choices needed to bring us back to (figurative or literal) safety.

Today’s message is to look at these places where indecision reigns and keeps us from moving. Look at why we are struggling, and recognize that the indecision or “freeze” we are experiencing very well could be an emotional response, and that it’s time to move past those emotions to make a decision.

DECK USED:  TAROT DE LUZ

#DiscordTarotholicsJun2025 Challenge
Philosophical Questions for June 4th and 25th

Tarot reading with the Tarot de Luz and Wyrd Sisters Deck of Spells and RitualsDo people need other people for true happiness?

Astral Help Sigil and The Chariot – Although people have a tendency to want to do things themselves and be the one leading the ship, sometimes everyone needs a little outside help. These cards indicate that yes, people do need other people in order to find true happiness. This doesn’t mean that they need other people all the time, but that having a trusted support system also supports happiness in the individual.

Are we ever morally obliged to take action?  If so, under what circumstances?

Fertility Sigil and The Hanged Man – Sometimes taking action looks like waiting to see what develops rather than stepping in. It also involves reflection.

These cards indicate that each person’s answer to this question will differ, depending on their personal perceptions of the world and whatever value they put in letting the other party go through the experience they’re considering interrupting.

Other elements included in this reading:
Dried Rosehips for Releasing Stress and Negativity
Foraged Red-Stemmed Feather Moss for Attentive Understanding
Clear Quartz for a boost of Intentional Energies
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: TAROT DE LUZ AND WYRD SISTERS DECK OF SPELLS AND RITUALS

Daily Self Kindness

I spent time getting to know my new gems that I picked up at the gemshow, including photographing them to add to my “collection” app that helps me keep track of them all.

Stabilization Maintenance

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Today’s meditation was skipped.

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Floral Seeker Tarot's Queen of PentaclesThe @GlitterbyInk #JuneSun25 Challenge
Summer Sunlight Prompt for June 8 : Energy

Today’s draw is the Queen of Pentacles (Wax Begonia), which is traditionally a representation of a receptive alpha energy, personality, or person in the area of one’s resources, financial stability, health, home, labors, manifestations, or other aspects of the physical realm. This often translates into a supportive or nurturing energy or entity in the areas of one’s health, home, and financial responsibilities.

When you take care of others you take care of yourself, and when you take care of yourself you take care of others.

Just because others depend on you doesn’t mean that you can neglect yourself and your own needs. To be the stable foundation in others lives requires maintenance of that stability and thus… self-care.

Self-care isn’t selfish when you are the stabilizing force in others lives. It’s also another way in which you are caring for them.

DECK USED:  FLORAL SEEKER TAROT

#DiscordTarotholicsJun2025 Challenge
Prompt for June 8th : Do Spread 2
Philosophical Question for June 18th : Why do people feel the need to distract themselves from reality?


Philosophical Oracle Reading with the Wildflowers of the West Oracle and Twist the Leaf's Gratitude Oracle

Reading Summary: The color in the Black-Eyed Susan card correlates with the list of creators in the anchor card. The speaks of drawing one’s attention to what is creating a need for distraction. What is pushing this behavior?

In the Wild Bluebell card and the Butterfly Bush card, there is a connection between the pink in each of these cards and the hands and face of the diver in the anchor card. This brings into focus that the control of these situations is in our hands, but is mitigated by our perception of what’s going on in the moment.

The blue hues in the Wild Bluebell card is reflected in the blue ocean background in the anchor card, although not as a perfect match. This connection reminds us that our perception of the world around us is often flawed and how it can sometimes be skewed by what’s going on right in front of us.

Take Away: These cards indicate that when we are distracting ourselves from reality, it’s because we are not seeing the whole picture, and what we are seeing is causing misconceptions on how to move forward. The cards also offer advice that says instead of jumping to conclusions, one should take a closer look around and try and see things from an outside perspective, or from the perspective of where these stressors are originating from… rather than just our own perspective on the issue.

Other elements included in this reading:
Lace Agate for Increasing Inner Stability
Conch Shell Knot for Concentration and Clarity

DECK USED: WILDFLOWERS OF THE WEST AND TWIST THE LEAF’S GRATITUDE ORACLE

Daily Self Kindness

Although I didn’t take a nap today, I did take breaks and rest when I needed to.  I also stepped inside to cool down when I needed instead of pushing on in the heat.

❤️ Self Care Saturday (On a Sunday)

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These Saturday readings are (not usually) bearing in on any one thing or event in my life, as the question used is asking for a more general outlook. This is a self care exercise, and is not meant as a predictive reading… although that, too, happens on occasion.

The question is… What do I need to focus for self-care through the week ahead?

Self Care Saturday Tarot Reading with the Cards Drawn Tarot and Phases & Forests Oracle

Earth – The Moon atop Five of Swords – Don’t engage. Engaging in conflict this week is only going to lead to feelings of uncertainty. There will be no clear winners, no matter how hard you try, just lots of questions and relentless feeling of uncertainty that grows and intensifies as the conflict continues.

Air – Three of Cups Rx – Remember that it’s okay to not feel sociable sometimes. You’re not an extrovert, even if you can put on the shoes now and then when you need to, and pushing yourself in this area at the moment will just drain you, exhausting you mentally.

Water – Eight of Wands – Give yourself room this week emotionally, for your emotions have a tendency to run amuck now and then. This week is going to be one of those weeks where they’re swirling around, trying to overwhelm you with their speed and numbers. To keep the clamoring to a minimum, give yourself that extra emotional space.

Fire – Nine of Cups Rx – Don’t let the emotional upheaval of this week make you feel less than, nor that you don’t have enough or haven’t done enough. Remember that emotions create illusion, which can in turn cause feelings of dissatisfaction to rise up. Emotions, though, are not truth tellers. They are temporary impressions that come and go.

Waning – Summer Solstice – Don’t get ahead of yourself. There’s still plenty of time to get the things done you need to get done.

Waxing – Rest: Waning Crescent – Keep your eye on the prize and what needs to be finished, and consider what kind of reward you want to give yourself for finishing up and getting the job done.

Take Away – Stay on target this week with what you want and need to complete, and don’t allow your emotions to lead you astray into murky waters. You are more than capable of the tasks before you, even if self doubt occasionally causes you to not quite believe in yourself. Remember that emotions are temporary, and ebb and flow like ripples over water.

Other elements included in this reading:
Foraged Wood Fern for Exorcising Negative Influences
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECKS USED: CARDS DRAWN TAROT AND PHASES & FORESTS ORACLE

Changing the Narrative

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Today’s meditation was eleven minutes long, and one of the #DailyCalm sessions from the @Calm app. Interconnectedness.

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Tarot of the Hidden Realm's The Sun CardThe @GlitterbyInk #JuneSun25 Challenge
Summer Sunlight Prompt for June 7 : Dim

Today’s draw is the Sun card, which is traditionally a representation of success, optimism, positivity, fun and frivolity. In my path, the Sun is also a symbol of male vitality, virility, and warmth.

Don’t let the responsibilities of the day keep you from having a little fun. Being open to a more positive outlook will help the day go much smoother, and you will feel a greater sense of achievement at the day’s end.

DECK USED:  TAROT OF THE HIDDEN REALM

@LightningWildflower‘s June Tarot Challenge
Balance Prompts for June 7th thru 9th

Oracle Reading with the Norse Oracle and Botanical Messages Flower OracleWhat imbalances would I find if I looked more closely at my life?

Asgard and Onion – When you look deeper than the surface, you will find that there is an imbalance between constructive and destructive forces in your life right now. A lack of planning can make it difficult to move forward, so make sure when you’re looking deeper that you’re not just looking… but also planning and strategizing a way ahead that rectifies things.

How can I bring a greater sense of harmony to my day?

Freyr and Amaryllis – Get your new flowers and plants that you picked up last week planted. It might be a bit too hot today, but you can tackle them tomorrow if you approach working with them early enough before the heat builds too much outside. You need the time outside with your hands in the dirt, and in doing so you will be accomplishing something you’ve been putting off at the same time.

What do I need to focus…

more on?

Aegir and Star Anise – Lean into your spirituality and intuition. Your emotions have made these things sometimes feel a bit less stable than you’re used to, but that is simply your emotions putting that impression in the mix. Make sure that you are continuing to look beyond just the logical answers that you tend to want to trust and depend on.

less on?

Heimdall and Morning Glory – Don’t let flights of fancy cause you to lose focus on what’s important. Sometimes it’s easy to get distracted, especially when working on things you don’t really enjoy, and you really need to make sure to keep your eye on the ball right now.

Other elements included in this reading:
Foraged Silver Maple Key for Bouncing Back to Thrive
Green Aventurine for Harmony and Balance of the Heart
Aragonite for Fostering Truth, Understanding, and Clarity
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: NORSE ORACLE AND BOTANICAL MESSAGES FLOWER ORACLE

Daily Self Kindness

I had some appetizers for lunch instead of trying to choke down the healthy option that I was otherwise considering, but wasn’t really in the mood for.

Setting Ego Aside

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Today’s meditation was ten minutes long, and was one of the #DailyCalm sessions from the @Calm app.

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J.K Tarot's Three of Pentacles - Jupiter King TarotThe @GlitterbyInk #JuneSun25 Challenge
Summer Sunlight Prompt for June 6 : Newness
Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

Today’s draw is the Three of Pentacles, which is traditionally a representation of teamwork, collaboration, working together, and themes to do with bringing in help and/or outside expertise in order to get something done.

It’s time to start looking at asking for help in a new light. Just maybe asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness, but rather an effort at inclusion and a sign of leadership. After all, asking others to step in and participate creates opportunities for bonding and a more communal atmosphere.  Letting someone brace your ladder shows trust, taking their input and ideas with a welcoming attitude shows respect, and delegating tasks to share the load shows a lack of ego-driven behavior.

None of these things are weaknesses.

The message in today’s cards tells us to put away our egocentric feelings on asking for help, and instead try to view it as a community building activity that encourages trust, respect, and interpersonal bonding… all facilitated by you.

DECK USED:  J. K. TAROT

@LightningWildflower‘s June Tarot Challenge
Healing Prompts for June 4th thru 6th

Oracle Reading with the Eco Heart OracleWhat healing has already taken place in my life?

Maple – You are safe and protected, which allows you to make the changes in your life you need to make to stay true to you. This can mean taking a flying leap now and then like the unlikely “flying trees” of maple seedlings spiraling their way to the ground, digging your roots deep for greater stability like the tree itself uses to ride out stormy weather, or shedding what needs released so that it doesn’t tap out your resources like maple leaves being shed in the fall.

What do I still need to move through or past?

Frog – Remember that this is not the end and there is still growth to be had, especially in the watery bog of your emotions. In this area, you are just starting out on a journey that most people begin in childhood. It’s okay to explore, and it’s okay to be confused. Be patient with yourself and your development, and celebrate the small steps you make from day to day.

How can I continue to heal and recover?

Winter Rose – Patience is important. Instead of struggling under the down times when things aren’t busy, use these times to soak up the rest you need and top off your energy stores for when you are too busy to be able to give yourself these needed moments of luxury. Rest and recover, get out in nature, and take these times to look at the dreams you’ve held onto with an open and curious mind.

Other elements included in this reading:
Foraged Wood Fern for Exorcising Negative Influences
Yellow Aventurine for Boosting Confidence
Selenite for Purification and drawing in Positive Energy

DECK USED: ECO HEART ORACLE

Daily Self Kindness

I was inspired to dive head first down a rabbit hole into the meaning of the word “ableist” to learn just exactly what it means and how it displays in people’s behaviors.

Finding the Positive for June 3 – 5

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Magic Pantry Tarot's Five of Cups and Judgment Card, Student Tarot v2's Wheel of Fortune and Chariot cards, and Greenwood Tarot's Judgement Card

June 3 – Mental Health Card of the Day

Today’s meditation was skipped.

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The @GlitterbyInk #JuneSun25 Challenge
Summer Sunlight Prompt for June  : Shine
Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

I have now managed to pull the Five of cups three days in a row, this time combined with the Judgment card.

  • The Five of Cups is traditionally a representation of pessimism, regrets, doomsday thinking, disappointments, and occasionally, failure (or at the very least, the perception of failure).
  • The Judgment card is traditionally a representation of judgements, one’s inner calling and chosen life path, and looking back on one’s life to consider how they feel about the path they’ve taken and who they have become.

SO, because it’s clear that this card has a message for me that I’m missing, I went to the deck’s guidebook this time for a little guidance. The key points taken away from the guidebook’s input are…

  • Whatever it is that is creating this feeling of defeat for you is now in the past and can’t be undone.
  • Think creatively about how you respond and react so that not all is lost.
  • Don’t beat yourself up for struggling with this.
  • There is no prescribed answers sometimes, and in those moments you just have to wing it to gain better understanding through experience.
  • Expect the unexpected, even if you think you know what’s about to happen.

The message that I see here is to ride it out.  Ride out these feelings of struggle and disappointment, discontent and unhappiness. Look for the positive spin and let things move at their own pace while taking little sips of joy where you can.

Just make sure that you are staying alert to opportunities to turn things around moving forward. You can’t change the past and the decisions  you made. They say that hindsight is 20/20, and that’s true. Instead of looking back, look forward and seek out opportunities to change things for the better.

DECK USED: MAGIC PANTRY TAROT

June 4 – Mental Health Card of the Day

Today’s meditation was skipped.

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The @GlitterbyInk #JuneSun25 Challenge
Summer Sunlight Prompt for June  : Bright
Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

Today’s draw is the Wheel of Fortune atop the Chariot card. This means that they came out of the deck together, and the Wheel of Fortune card was on top, and this the dominant card of the pair.

  • The Wheel of Fortune card is traditionally a representation of luck (both good and bad), changing circumstances, the ups and downs of life, and the cyclical nature of life and the world.
  • The Chariot card is traditionally traditionally a representation of control, determination, direction, and autonomy.

Some days, things are going to go how they’re going to go, and you can’t always have a lot of control over that. What you do have control over is your own reactions.

Make sure you are using that creative mind of yours to look on the bright side. Not being in control has a tendency to make you cranky and unreasonable. Be aware that today, it’s only you and your own reactions you are going to have control over.  Ride the wheel and enjoy the ride, no matter what it brings your way.

These cards are a reminder that some days all we can do in our lives or control is our own reactions an dhow we perceive a situation. Everything else is out of our hands, and any efforts to seize control will be overkill.

DECK USED: THE STUDENT TAROT v2

June 5 – Mental Health Card of the Day

Today’s meditation was fifteen minutes long, and self-directed. It was based off of the graphic included in the image with today’s card.  It was about something called “Window Light Theory”, and the concept that light itself is healing. It doesn’t require you going out into the sun to feel those healing effects, either.  How this small touch of natural light can do so much, if we take a moment to savor it… and so can other little things like appreciating a moment of quiet beauty in the world.

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The @GlitterbyInk #JuneSun25 Challenge
Summer Sunlight Prompt for June  : Outside
Daily Mental Health Prompt: Seek a positive message to carry with you throughout the day and offer perspective.

Today’s draw is the Judgement Card, which is traditionally a representation of judgements, one’s inner calling and chosen life path, and looking back on one’s life to consider how they feel about the path they’ve taken and who they have become.

Last night, I saw a video of a polar bear just wandering through an Alaskan town, and it struck me that I never really grasped just how large these animals are.  It meandered its way past a standard sized sedan, and… the car was smaller than the bear. In fact, the car was dwarfed by the bear’s size. And yet?  It still looked like a warm and fuzzy white teddy bear in need of a good petting.

It’s funny, because I see these memes all the time that say, “If not friend, why friend shaped?” and here it is!

The message in today’s cards is a reminder to not judge a book by its cover. That bear may be cute, but he could also kill you with a hug.  What we see on the outside is not enough. It’s not enough for our safety, and it’s not enough to make decisions and actions concerning. Beautiful flowers can be poisonous. Cuddly looking bears can be hungry killers. People are even more complicated than plants and animals, and their covers just as difficult to interpret.

Make sure that you aren’t judging them by “their covers” alone. Actions are important, and so is digging deeper.

DECK USED: THE GREENWOOD TAROT