It’s Going To Be Okay 2024 Day-to-day Calendar by Kate Allan

It’s okay. Just… Stay

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Today’s meditation was skipped.

Birds & Flowers Tarot's King of Swords and It’s Going To Be Okay 2024 Day-to-day Calendar By Kate AllanToday’s draw is the King of Swords combined with the affirmation “The world wouldn’t be right without you in it. Stay.”

Yes, you’re stubborn. Yes, sometimes you have your head stuck up your ass.  You’re a force to be reckoned with, and that’s not a bad thing. People depend on your cleverness and leadership, and that’s also not a bad thing.

Don’t give up just because you aren’t “feeling it” at the moment.  Rest is okay, but retreat is not.  So stand tall and stay… tell the world to wait… but stay.  You can take control and plot your course any way you want to.

So stay… and do that.

DECKS USED:  BIRDS & FLOWERS TAROT AND IT’S GOING TO BE OKAY 2024 DAY-TO-DAY CALENDAR BY KATE ALLAN

The #mysticstartarot Challenge Prompt
Questions for February 28th and 29th

Nature Healing Oracle and Claude Monet Tarot's Knight of Pentacles and Ten of SwordsHow should you go forward with my relationship with myself?

Knight of Pentacles and Raccoon – Go slowly and be kind. Use the slow pace to heal the damage done to you in your past and build yourself up from that “not enough” mindset.

With this extra day, how can I give myself some extra love?

Ten of Swords and Horse – You have reached the end of a difficult journey. Instead of rehashing all the things you did wrong along the way, celebrate your victories, and let the blame game and guilt go.

DECK USED: CLAUDE MONET TAROT AND DIVINE NATURE HEALING ORACLE

#DiscordTarotholicsFeb2024 Challenge Prompt
Philosophical Question for February 28th : Does love necessitate action, or can it exist simply as a feeling?

Birds & Flowers Tarot - Seven of Swords, Six of Cups, Queen of Wands, Nine of PentaclesReading Summary: Sometimes, when we are young (Six of Cups), we feel the need to go after each, and every shred of love and foster them into something great (Queen of Swords), even the ones that really should get away (Seven of Swords). But as we get older, we learn to enjoy being grounded as our emotions speak, and are not so tempted to chase but appreciate instead (Nine of Pentacles).

Take Away: It can simply exist as a feeling, but it usually takes us getting older and more experienced with the world and our emotions at large before we are able to leave it alone and let it just be and exist. When we are young, it’s far too easy to fall into the need to chase it or -do- something about it.

DECK USED: BIRDS & FLOWERS TAROT

Daily Self Kindness

This is a catch up post, and I’m not entirely sure what the self kindness was for this day.

Heavy Is the Head

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Today’s meditation was ten minutes long, and was a meditation session from YouTube that I was curious about.  During the meditation, my mind wandered to a topic that it seemed to stay on for a bit. That topic being how to accept the phrase “I don’t know”, and how sometimes it is the best and wisest of answer we can give.

I don’t usually have a problem with “I don’t know”. The words come easily to my lips and regardless of the fact that I feel triggered by the words “pissant” and “stupid”? Saying that I don’t know doesn’t usually trigger any of those issues at all.  I know others who are, though, and I spent my meditation considering how I can better accept “I don’t know” from others, and appreciate their vulnerability when they say it.

City Labyrinth Tarot's The Emperor and It’s Going To Be Okay 2024 Day-to-day Calendar By Kate AllanToday’s draw is the Emperor card combined with the affirmation “You are a fighter ever onward.”

You know that phrase “heavy is the head that wears the crown”?  Well, they weren’t kidding.  Being in charge is not always all it’s chalked up to be.  In fact, sometimes, it downright sucks.

It takes a fighter to lead the hoard. That’s a part of what makes a leader a leader.  Don’t forget that it is that inner fight and strength within you that keep not just you going, but others too.  Even on the hard days.

You stand up for yourself. You stand up for others.  You stand up for what is right, and what needs to be done… even in the face of adversity. It’s an important, integral part of who you are.

DECKS USED:  CITY LABYRINTH TAROT AND IT’S GOING TO BE OKAY 2024 DAY-TO-DAY CALENDAR BY KATE ALLAN

#DiscordTarotholicsFeb2024 Challenge Prompt
Question for February 27th : No Brainer Day – What is something simple and easy you can do for yourself?

City Labyrinth Tarot - Ten of Pentacles, Queen of Swords, Eight of Cups, Eight of PentaclesReading Summary: Get your unlisted work listed and on display (Eight of Pentacles).

Remember that an appointment with your shrink (Queen of Swords) can help you in finding contentment and stability (Ten of Pentacles) when frustration has you wanting to run (Eight of Cups).

Take Away: Confession…. I have a lot of jewelry pieces that are done, but not yet listed in my online shops. Like… a lot.  Primarily?  It’s because for me, the listing process is the most boring and tedious part of the entire process.  So I get the pieces made, I get them photographed, I even get the photos prepped and ready to go online… and then I stall out because of the listing process.   The Eight of Pentacles in this reading is about that.  It’s about getting my work seen rather than just done.

And… I’m overdue for a shrink appointment.  I was considering skipping it, but the argument here in the cards that she helps me to find stability and contentment is a good one.  I have to make a call and get an appointment set up.

DECK USED: CITY LABYRINTH TAROT

Daily Self Kindness

Even though I went north, I slept a lot today.  In the truck.  In the car. On Ms B’s couch.  A lot.

Upsetting the Apple Cart

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Today’s meditation was skipped.

The Mystical Creatures Tarot of Orient's Page of Wands and It’s Going To Be Okay 2024 Day-to-day Calendar By Kate AllanToday’s draw is the Page of Wands combined with the affirmation “You’re strong, smart, and you got this.”

Just because you don’t always know what you’re doing doesn’t mean you shouldn’t charge forward and do it anyway.  Adaptability and flexibility can go a long way when exploring and experimenting.

Try new things. Have some fun with it. Don’t worry so much about failure, or about upsetting the apple cart.  Sometimes, you find the best apples by tipping the cart over and digging around in the bottom of the pile.

DECKS USED:  THE MYTHICAL CREATURES TAROT OF ORIENT AND IT’S GOING TO BE OKAY 2024 DAY-TO-DAY CALENDAR BY KATE ALLAN

The #mysticstartarot Challenge Prompt
Question for February 25th thru 27th

The Mystical Creatures Tarot of Orient - Strength, Ten of Wands, Page of SwordsWhat does my subconscious wish to share with me?

Ten of Wands – You are still trying to recover from burnout. Don’t push too hard. If you push yourself too hard right now, you will end up setting yourself back from your recovery. Better to let yourself recover fully and then work on keeping things on an even keel.

How will this information impact my relationship with myself?

Page of Swords – You will need to work at reminding yourself that research is just as valid a type of work as physical pursuit of your goals. Sometimes it’s not about how much more you can -do- physically to obtain your goals.  Sometimes you have to do the digging and research instead.

What resistance do I have to the messages my subconscious is sharing?

Strength – Your inner narratives will try to manipulate you into not listening and doing things the old way. That old way is proven as unhealthy, so make sure that you are not falling into old habits. That cycle of burnout you sustained for years is not your friend.

DECK USED: THE MYTHICAL CREATURES TAROT OF ORIENT

Daily Self Kindness

This is a catch up post, and I’m not entirely sure what the self kindness was for this day.

A Little Wallow Time is Okay

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Today’s meditation was skipped. Yes, the cards continue to tell me that I need to meditate more.

Victorian Romance Tarot's Nine of Cups and It’s Going To Be Okay 2024 Day-to-day Calendar By Kate AllanToday’s draw is the Nine of Cups combined with the affirmation “Lets sit down, drink some tea, and then we’ll figure this out.”

You don’t have to rush into every new problem and tackle it head on as soon as it comes to your attention.  Sometimes? It can wait.

Sometimes, a little self care and contentment can come first.  Don’t let taking some time for that… for you… make you feel guilty. That problem will still be there once you’ve had some time to wallow in a bit of contentment.

DECKS USED:  HARMONIOUS TAROT (got fooled by a bootleg) AND IT’S GOING TO BE OKAY 2024 DAY-TO-DAY CALENDAR BY KATE ALLAN

The #mysticstartarot Challenge Prompt
Questions for February 22nd thru 24th

Romeo and Juliet Love OracleWhat are my low vibrational beliefs about myself?

Rosaline – You feel that you are too serious and  unnecessarily judgmental, and thus too boring or repellent to others.

How have these beliefs sabotaged my relationship with myself?

Capulet atop Confession of Love – These beliefs continually justify your self-cruelty and abuse. Instead of giving yourself love, you treat yourself more harshly than warranted as a form of punishment.

How can I release these negative beliefs about self?

Fake Death – Fake it til you make it. Even if you don’t believe you deserve it, treat yourself kindly anyway. Pretend they like you, because they probably do and sooner or later you’ll believe it if you just keep working on it.

DECK USED: ROMEO AND JULIET LOVE ORACLE

#DiscordTarotholicsFeb2024 Challenge Prompt
Question for February 24th : What do you need to focus on for self-care for this full moon?

Victorian Romance Tarot - Seven of Swords, King of Cups, Four of CupsSeven of Swords – Letting go of untenable situations. Now is an excellent time for the magic of letting go. If something isn’t working? Stop trying to make it work. Just let it go and move on to better things.

King of Cups – Gideon. More time with Gideon is a very good idea. He helps balance you out and his presence is a steadying factor in your life that helps you in working through your emotions.

Four of Cups – Meditate regularly.  When the world is whipping around you in a chaotic spin, it’s the meditation that helps you find your center. You need to meditate regularly to reap its benefits, though.

DECK USED: HARMONIOUS TAROT (got fooled by a bootleg)

Daily Self Kindness

I spent a good part of my day in a Benadryl haze.  Fortunately, my couch is comfortable, since I spent a great deal of time on it today.

Let’s Wing It

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#DailyTrip with the Calm app - Sayadaw U Tejaniya quoteToday’s meditation was ten minutes long, and was a #DailyTrip session from the Calm app.  The session itself was only eight minutes, but I lingered for another two because it felt a little too short.

The session was about doing nothing, and essentially walked you through eight minutes of doing just that… nothing.  It guided you back to that “nothing” again and again whenever the mind starts to stray or the attention begins to be pulled in one direction or another, bringing you back to that “nothing” again and again throughout the session.

You would think a meditation like this would be easy, but it’s not until you actually try it that you realize just how much stuff goes through your head from minute to minute throughout the day.

Moon Void Tarot's King of Wands and It’s Going To Be Okay 2024 Day-to-day Calendar By Kate AllanToday’s draw is the King of Wands combined with the affirmation “I have no idea what I’m doing, but I’m trying anyway.”

“Winging it” really is a thing.  A very useful and extremely helpful thing. It can terrify others (or even yourself) when the question of “what are we going to do” comes up and your answer is “I dunno.  Let’s see what happens!”  And yet?  Some of the absolute greatest successes (and most massive failures) come out of that sense of adventure that allows you to “just wing it” now and then.

Don’t forget about the magic in this. Enthusiasm and winging it can set the world on fire.

DECKS USED:  MOON VOID TAROT AND IT’S GOING TO BE OKAY 2024 DAY-TO-DAY CALENDAR BY KATE ALLAN

#DiscordTarotholicsFeb2024 Challenge Prompt
Question for February 23rd : Dog Biscuit Appreciation Day – What in life makes you deserving of a treat today?

The Roadkill Oracle Deck and Moon Void Tarot - Three of Swords, Page of PentaclesThree of Swords Rx and Sloth – You aren’t languishing, which allows your depression and disenchantment a foothold, but actually doing things today.

It might not be the things that everyone else wants you to do?  But that’s okay.  Do what you want to do. You’re starting something new and getting things done.

Page of Pentacles and Human – You’ve made a choice to be creative today and begin the first steps on a new creative project. Part of this is bringing that project to somewhere you have more time to focus on it, but also there is the part where you actually began the project.

The Treat – Ms B made homemade chocolate chip cookies!

DECK USED: MOON VOID TAROT AND THE ROADKILL ORACLE DECK

Daily Self Kindness

I packed up and took a set of work stuff to Ms B’s today.  It really bothers me that a lot of times when I’m at her house, I’m wasting hours of my day just sitting around so that she has some company for a bit.  By bringing a set of supplies/tools there, I can at least get something productive done during that time, even if I’m working on it a little at a time instead of finishing projects in one fell swoop.

Emotions are Hard

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Today’s meditation was skipped.

Journey Tarot Deck's Queen of Water (Queen of Cups)and It’s Going To Be Okay 2024 Day-to-day Calendar By Kate AllanToday’s draw is the Queen of Cups combined with the affirmation “Please try not to worry. It will all work itself out.”

Emotions are watery and never stagnant.  That means that they will ebb and flow and be in constant motion. They are not a foundation you can stand steadily upon, but something that swirls around you.

That doesn’t mean that they don’t have your place, and that over time they won’t become familiar and even comforting in their presence.

Let them swirl around you. Experience them, and let them become familiar.

DECKS USED:  JOURNEY TAROT DECK AND IT’S GOING TO BE OKAY 2024 DAY-TO-DAY CALENDAR BY KATE ALLAN

Lionharts #TheFebruaryTarot Once Upon a Tarot Prompt
Questions for February 22nd and 23rd

Journey Tarot Deck - Page of Cups, Three of Pentacles, Page of Swords, Two of Pentacles, Six of Cups, Seven of CupsThe Moon: Navigating the Tides
What is currently contributing to the ebbing tide in my life?

Six of Cups – Nostalgia. There are things from your past that have rose up of late that are now beginning to ebb away again.  Needs and wants, dreams you’ve had that are settling into the back burner.  Released and fading.

What can I do to harmonize with the natural flow of my emotions?

Two of Pentacles – Focus on balancing things out. Be glad when those things no longer serving you begin to slide away, as it makes room for something new to take its place. Otherwise, balancing everything becomes impossible as there are too many pieces on the board at once.

How can I skillfully navigate life’s currents, moving with the rhythm?

Three of Pentacles – Lean into others to help you. You don’t have to do everything yourself, and when you try to it sets you out of rhythm with those currents. Better to allow them to to help.

The Sun: Basking in Radiance
In what area can I consciously acknowledge the abundance and gratitude in my heart?

Seven of Cups – Be grateful for all the options that are available to you. You’re not trapped into one choice in most of the aspects of your life.  You’ve forged your life to allow you to always have options open to you in a way that most do not.

What ritual or activity can amplify the abundance of joy that already exists in my life?

Page of Swords – Be open to new ideas. There is more opportunities and options open to you than you can even imagine. If you think outside the box and are open to new ideas, you will have more ways to seek out those things that inspire you.

How can I continue to nurture and expand the already abundant wellspring of gratitude and joy within?

Page of Cups – Continue working on developing your emotional intelligence. It’s a long journey and not an easy one, but when you continue to work on this, you come closer to understanding yourself and what you truly need in life, allowing you to develop goals of your own instead of those ingrained in you from your past experiences and upbringing.

DECK USED: JOURNEY TAROT DECK

Daily Self Kindness

Today’s post is a catch-up post, and I can’t remember what my daily self-kindness was for today.